im 17 years old, i smoke 10 cigarettes a day, im a social drinker and OCCASIONALY smoke cannabis and masturbate or have fun with my girlfriend every day.
now down to my problem, its a weird one, i dont jizz asoon as i touch a woman sort of thing, i can kiss my girlfriend for hours, i can finger her etc. but when it comes down to me i have no endurance what so ever, i can only recieve a blowjob or a ha****b for 5 minutes max, and the sex is just embarrassing. ill put it in, trust 3 times and then im done. apart from this one time one of my friends gave me CIALIS, i made love to her for an hour. but i know this is a quick fix, and when it wears off im back to square one.
she was a virgin when i met her, but after the one time with cialis, i can see the dissappointment in her eyes expecting it to be like then, and i know she will leave me eventualy, because she loves sex :(
ive also realised i dont get proper rock ons everytime, most of the time there is still some softness to it, and it goes down after 30 seconds of no stimulation.
so people what should i do? i dont want to take cialis everytime for the rest of my life, its impractical to have to plan 2 hours in advance of when im gonna have sex, and once it wears off im back to square one.
please help :/
I'm 17 also, my boyfriend is 23..was you a virgin when you got with her? Sometimes if your fully attracted to the person it doesn't take long at all,, or maybe shes just that good:) Don't be so hard on yourself, im sure she doesnt think of it like that, maybe its just the way your mind works.