There is this girl that i liked for about 2years. This summer i finally asked her out and she said no in a polite way for sure. Then time pass and one night about a month ago just inside a conversation that i didn't plan we both seamed to want to be together and it happened and we are together now.Now i am 17years old and she is 16years old.
Now i am finding a bit hard to be a boyfriend and the me that she liked before but i guess i am getting used to it . The one problem that i see is that she told me: ''I didn't try to get away from you at first but the opposite and i didn't want to loose you as a friend first and i was trying to get to know you better but now i really like u. Also I am afraid that if we broke up (after all we will :S) you wouldn't wanna be friends anymore.''
Now i feel that i am just a fun boyfriend until she gets bored or feel like doing some changes . Is this just my imagination or this girl like me just a bit but she is trying to see how does it feel to be with me ?
Now i am finding a bit hard to be a boyfriend and the me that she liked before but i guess i am getting used to it . The one problem that i see is that she told me: ''I didn't try to get away from you at first but the opposite and i didn't want to loose you as a friend first and i was trying to get to know you better but now i really like u. Also I am afraid that if we broke up (after all we will :S) you wouldn't wanna be friends anymore.''
Now i feel that i am just a fun boyfriend until she gets bored or feel like doing some changes . Is this just my imagination or this girl like me just a bit but she is trying to see how does it feel to be with me ?
Your post is rather confusing.
But I have interpreted it as you are scared that if you break up, which you seem to think you will, you will be scared that you will no longer be friends.
At this age this sort of thing happens lots with friends and relationships. Your young and so is your girlfriend, This age is all about experimenting with feelings and trying new things.
If you do break up it will most likley be very awkward for a while but with time things will become back to normal.
When I was in Year 9 at school (about 15 years old) I went out this girl for about 2 weeks. And i broke up with her because I said she smelt. (Childish wasnt I). A few years later and we are great friends now. She is now married to one of my friends and we just joke about the old days.
So my advice is don't worry, have some fun, and see where it takes you. Don't worry to much about making or breaking relationships at this stage, cus its all about experimenting and exploring your feelings.
Hope that helped :-P
But I have interpreted it as you are scared that if you break up, which you seem to think you will, you will be scared that you will no longer be friends.
At this age this sort of thing happens lots with friends and relationships. Your young and so is your girlfriend, This age is all about experimenting with feelings and trying new things.
If you do break up it will most likley be very awkward for a while but with time things will become back to normal.
When I was in Year 9 at school (about 15 years old) I went out this girl for about 2 weeks. And i broke up with her because I said she smelt. (Childish wasnt I). A few years later and we are great friends now. She is now married to one of my friends and we just joke about the old days.
So my advice is don't worry, have some fun, and see where it takes you. Don't worry to much about making or breaking relationships at this stage, cus its all about experimenting and exploring your feelings.
Hope that helped :-P