lillady I am glad you are well after that awful even and have moved on. You have done the right thing by not dwelling on the past and are looking at your future with this new lovely guy youve met. Great work.
I agree, calling cops and making a huge issue of such things can make things even worse and puts you in the limelight. Something you never want to happen to you especially after such a traumatic and emotionally destructive event. That's very brave of you. Recently a similar situation happened at our school and the girl was advised to report the event to the cops. Boy o boy, what a drama !! Everything became much worse and everything about her became public knowledge. Poor girl she moved away from our town to go elsewhere, to escape this rubbish.
You've got to think how things are going to affect you if you go to the cops. The offender definitely needs to be punished but if that process is going to drag you into the mire and make your life miserable then the question is " is it worth it? do I have to go through all this rubbish and destroy everything and your life?"
I agree, calling cops and making a huge issue of such things can make things even worse and puts you in the limelight. Something you never want to happen to you especially after such a traumatic and emotionally destructive event. That's very brave of you. Recently a similar situation happened at our school and the girl was advised to report the event to the cops. Boy o boy, what a drama !! Everything became much worse and everything about her became public knowledge. Poor girl she moved away from our town to go elsewhere, to escape this rubbish.
You've got to think how things are going to affect you if you go to the cops. The offender definitely needs to be punished but if that process is going to drag you into the mire and make your life miserable then the question is " is it worth it? do I have to go through all this rubbish and destroy everything and your life?"
why would you feel guilty about masturbation? Geez that's so negative and unproductive. Please don't bring in religion as a reason for feeling that way.
I love this guy, and we're thinking about having sex, but I am too young to be pregnant. What shall I do to prevent pregnancy from happening?