Just rub lots of garlic on your penis... Itz great...
His question is not "staying power" but continuing erection enough for penetration AFTER his orgasm. I was "gifted" -when I was younger- in I got HARDER after ejaculation than before-for 3 or 4 "cumshots"; however, as I aged, this gift has diminished. What I am finding is, DON'T FIGHT IT! The parasympathetic nervous system causes erection, the sympathetic ejaculation; they are antagonistic-parasympathetic slows HR, etc., sympathetic makes you ready to run from danger or fight-blood flow and nervous excitement to "unnecessary" viscera, GI tract, penis, etc., diminishes. Thus, the powerful sympathetic burst "floods out" the parasympathetic, just as if you were eating a meal and an axe murder ran at you-you'd jump up and run right? And probably feel a "heavy gut" after you escaped. Same thing after ejaculation. So why do I say "don't fight it"? well, the orgasm will come, and the more you "strain" the cremaster mm and the smooth muscle in holding back, the more norepi will flood the receptors, blocking out ach, so you "go limp". Let go, and the neurotransmitter ratio will diminish, and you'll find your penis staying hard after you cum; I totally disagree with "pinching it off" and that c**p, unless you are cumming too soon-and to me, anything under 90 minutes is "too soon". My problem now is low testosterone, but once I have some more gel and injjections, I expect to be banging away for times you wouldn't believe-but neither did my partners! Anotehr thing, try not to worry about it; anxiety is sympathetic, too; causing limpness in the penis. From what my female friends who were also my partners, they had maybe 1 or 2 guys before me who could "keep thrusting" after a cumshot; and then through only 1 and not much longer. For many women, you may be concerned for nothing; once they reach G-spot vaginal orgasm, many women "tire" and want full body contact more than more intercourse; as you know, every woman wants different speed, hardness of thrusting, and other variants. SAME IS TRUE FOR TIME OF INTERCOURSE. Remember, try not to be anxious, this will kill the erection post-orgasm faster than holding it for too long; avoid pinching and trwisting and other c**p unless you are a 1 minute guy; I honestly cannot name one of dozens of guys who confided to me-or girls who were friends who talked about their partner premarturely ejaculating-and none had any real success with the "pinch off method". Desensitizing creams? Same story. As far as erectile dysfunction pills, I have no experience here; I have heard they work for impotence, but you don't have a problem attaining erection, right? (Enjoy this! If you get Low testosterone later, like me, you will loathe the old sleepy snake!) One thing we have no data on yet due to their relatively short term on market is what is "dependency" on erectile dysfunction drugs? If you get healthy erections now, and began using Cialis or other product, will you begin to require it to get erect? No one knows yet-and technically, this is abusing the medication, never a good idea! Good luck and good thrusting and remember; 1)no anxiety and 2) let the cumshot go and see if you stay erect through it and after it! john m., dvm, phd (neurology), ma, ms (pharmacology) ba, bs, emt-b, emt-P(CC) RN(CC)
I agree,you can cum twice or even three times on the same erection,I did it many times when I was young.I met a guy once who did not believe I could do it,until I proved it to him.Like you say,you have to grit your teeth and press on,the result really is worth it.After the third time,there is little left,but you sure have fun!
Perfectly normal. You're not a porn star. Being able to hold an erection after ejaculation is pretty rare. Don't worry about it totally normal.
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