Alright, hey! I am a 14 year old girl and I am starting to have issues with this guy I have been dating.
I am his first girlfriend. We were friends for about a year. And then we had a "couple" thing going on for about 2 months.
Then, he finally asked me out. We have now been "official" for about a month now.
Everything has been going good. But my bestfriend (possibly ex-bestfriend) and him talk ALL the time. And that doesn't really even bother me. Because duh, im not going to give him "rules" if he wants to date me...that would be horrible.
But, he says he hates her a lot (lie). And she says she doesn't want anything to do with him (also a lie.)
Yesterday I was going to class and I saw them together. They were going to lunch together.
All I did was kinda roll my eyes and say whatever. Then at lunch I heard they were flirting and stuff.
Yeah, I was upset but I didnt really say anything.
Then later that night. He tells me nothing happened(lie).
I find out that she was "cold" so he have her his sweatshirt. And she HAPPENED to take his necklace too.
I was pissed. But I finally let that go throughout the day. THEN i go and hangout with him after school today.
I hear from some of my friends SHE IS PLANNING ON TRYING TO MAKEOUT WITH HIM!!!!
Its like WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU????
I think I have a right to be all pissed off.
Should I break up with him?
Should I be friends with her?
What would you do if you were me?
Please help?
*Not to mention SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND OF HER OWN! D:
But anyways. Thanks to anyone who gives me advice to what to do. I really like him and I want it to last... :/
Oh, and Im sorry for dumping this on the internet, hahah. I just need some way to let things out and also get help.
-Sarah<3
I am his first girlfriend. We were friends for about a year. And then we had a "couple" thing going on for about 2 months.
Then, he finally asked me out. We have now been "official" for about a month now.
Everything has been going good. But my bestfriend (possibly ex-bestfriend) and him talk ALL the time. And that doesn't really even bother me. Because duh, im not going to give him "rules" if he wants to date me...that would be horrible.
But, he says he hates her a lot (lie). And she says she doesn't want anything to do with him (also a lie.)
Yesterday I was going to class and I saw them together. They were going to lunch together.
All I did was kinda roll my eyes and say whatever. Then at lunch I heard they were flirting and stuff.
Yeah, I was upset but I didnt really say anything.
Then later that night. He tells me nothing happened(lie).
I find out that she was "cold" so he have her his sweatshirt. And she HAPPENED to take his necklace too.
I was pissed. But I finally let that go throughout the day. THEN i go and hangout with him after school today.
I hear from some of my friends SHE IS PLANNING ON TRYING TO MAKEOUT WITH HIM!!!!
Its like WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU????
I think I have a right to be all pissed off.
Should I break up with him?
Should I be friends with her?
What would you do if you were me?
Please help?
*Not to mention SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND OF HER OWN! D:
But anyways. Thanks to anyone who gives me advice to what to do. I really like him and I want it to last... :/
Oh, and Im sorry for dumping this on the internet, hahah. I just need some way to let things out and also get help.
-Sarah<3
ok sarah im kinder in the same situation.or i should say was :-D wat i did was simply ignored him.............yea it was hard 4 me but i tried not to call him,text somtimes even passed him and just smiled................. (to make him think that i did not care) and after a week or less he began callin me about 10 time a day.when i finally talked to him i told him y i was the way i way and he made the decision to stop tlk to her.......................................................
so long story short if he really like u he would do all he can to make you happy
and u should not be whith some 1 who treats u lik s**t
put him to the test then make ur decision on if to stay with him or not ;-)
so long story short if he really like u he would do all he can to make you happy
and u should not be whith some 1 who treats u lik s**t
put him to the test then make ur decision on if to stay with him or not ;-)
I think that honestly everyone has been though something like this... I would not talk to her bc in the long run shes going to sh*T on u over.. she dont want to be ur friend just wants ur boyfriend. I would lay down the rule and tell him how u feel.. if he cant handle that then well dump him. u will find another boy/guy u will like. U know everything going on dont let him tell you other wise. I think that you have the right to be pissed off.. If he tells u it is nothing, then i would find me a guy to flirt with then tell him that it is nothing.. Guys r soo wrong about everything and they dont care about anyone else but them self.. trust me girls r like that too so dont let any of them fool you.. GOOD LUCK
hi , i am also 14 with a boyfriend and we both r supposedly the most happening pair in the school and the secret to our relationship is trust and yeah both of us have been hit on several times and yeah ..he is a little possesive abt me..and about ur situation try talking to her bf or like shasha said ignore him for some more time..
I like someone else in my class but have a boyfriend. Do I need to break up with him or what?
So I told my best friend it, and she told my boyfriend because she likes him too. What now?