my personal experience is my lips got darker and lips got longer with time,im 40 and have only had 3 partners not bad,but i have had a very active sex life with my partners my last being with the same person 23 years.we still have sex 3 to 5 times a week ,sometimes even twice in a day,so i feel i have a beat up vagina ,my lips have definitely changed plus 4 childbirths mind you,i dont know you girlfriend has had kids ,but i feel that will do it too.i dont think i have given my vagina a break .i think it would be prettier had i not had so much sex,anyways true in the real world not everyone looks that nice down there.when we see the privates of the porn stars and how nice they look but they spend alot of money a month bleaching ,waxing,even geting their lips trimmed if they start to resemble mud flaps !!!well there is also a group of people who find this a turn on ,i found out not so long ago.there are web sites celebrating these ever so interesting mud flaps,this is when i decided to just leave them alone for i was considering getting them trimmed .my husband likes them.so just make sure she only has you as a partner and that she is desease free and enjoy those mud flaps,keep on trukin .
If you don't want them I'll gladly appreciate them for you. She is beautiful
Loose lips sink ships
I have an extremely long Labia, and only have had one sexual partner. It has nothing to do with how many partners she has been with. Every womans body is different. I can't believe your bitching about the size of hers. Just be grateful to have her.
Women break up with men due to penis size, so why can't a man break up with a woman due to vagina size?
Vagina size matters.
First of all, all the people who believe, that having a lot of sex makes the vaginas lips hang down or stretch so much as he eye can see in an 11 year periods, well, you need to wake up and do some biology research. A young woman of that age will have had her Virginia llok the same as when she was a virgin and completed adolescences, it's just the way she is made, such as some of you males have big penises or small shrivelled ones. Penis and vagina sizes and pigmentation varies as much as hair colour, so you all need to get over that. Same with breast and nipple shape.
Eventually, when collagen is not so abundantly produced, in both females and eventually males, from around the '40s and declines from there on in, this is when the skin on the body will start to feel less taunt all over the body and will cause a slight visible slackening, in the. Vulva and the testicle skin but that's usually around menopause time, and is very slight at the start. It's when you get to seventies onward it becomes most noticeable.
I have met virgins in their thirties with inner labia hanging out side the outer labia and they have always been this way. And I have also met young ladies with pink small inner labia and they have had many many partners.
Yes the walls of the vagina can slacken, this is usually after child birth of funnily enough after lots of sex with out orgasms or lack of pelvic exercise. However if the muscle in the vagina walls are not exercised, this has nothing to do with the lips, as these don not contain muscle tissue.
The more people keep perpetuating this misogynistic myth, the worse it gets and the more women feel less of a person because their so called beloved a are watching porn stars and comparing their beautiful parts to others. Get real and be a real lover and stop comparing and start loving a person wholly , if you are going to love them at all.
If you cannot stand that your partner has had more sexual partners than you wish, then it seems you have to look at what is important for yourself, and search for some one else. I'm sure there are many people who understand what is valuable in a relationship, and that the no of people in their past doesn't have to guide their future.
And to the people hung up on what someone has done in their past... You are obviously still hung up on your past, so try living in the present, and love and enjoy what that brings.
Here is a link that will show you how such nastiness about women's diverse beautiful parts, can cause teenager virgins to want to have surgery. ...I'm sorry to say it is MEN that perpetuate this nastiness, please, get educated and enlightened and stop.
If you have nothing nice to say to a woman, move on and find one you adore, do not stand there and berate, just to make yourself feel better.
Copy paste that, it's just one example of heart arch of a young woman.
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