Go back to sex-ed class. There is no chance she looks like that because of having sex. If she spent years working for one of those porn sites where they hung weights on her lips to stretch them, that would do it.
I am a dude that's GF has this going on. Sex isn't going to cause this. This is natural just like you having a cercomsised 3" penis or Uncercomsised 10" penis. Women are born this way and being an id**t about it is just wrong. Did you ever think maybe she thinks your penis is weird or ugly? These girls get off easy and are some of the tightest and hornyest I have been with. They are very sensitive and will make you a sex god if played with right.
ur lucky husband
Also the fact that you are putting online how many men she has slept with and that you think her vagina looks beat up means probably this relationship is not gonna last out because you sound remarkably immature, you have zero respect for her privacy. If you have questions you can ask a doctor but you don't put her information online. And Was said before if she had been with one partner for all of those years she would've had a lot more sex than sleeping with multiple partners over them.
A single woman having sex with over 40 plus men is not the same as a married women having sex with her husband. It is absolutely disgusting for a woman to have that many sexual partners. My wife is 41 years old and can count her partners on one hand and that's including me. No way in hell would I marry a woman with that many sexual partners on her resume. She's probably done everything in the book. That's okay if you're looking for a good f**k but as a married couple you'll have nothing new to look forward to in the bedroom. Not to mention, mentally she'll be constantly comparing you to some of those many sexual partners she's had. Dude, run.