want to know about virginity ..Have sex with a person last 6 month back and after that i always do with fingring..m going to meery is it possible taht my husband dnt came to knw that m nt virgin
I don't really understand your question, I am adding an answer I sent to another question on SteadyHealth.
Yes U R worrying for 2 reasons:
- You seem under educated about sex and STD's. Of course she could be pregnant; all your sperm does not wait until U forcefully ejaculate, many of the little blighters rush out earlier, long before U withdraw - they are faster than U my boy.
- Seriously how can U get an STD if both of U have only ever shared your love with each other. No AIDS in the families, no risk there.
- You seem brainwashed by religion:
- The religious rules about marriage R "that they control what U do" - they R wrong - Marriage is immediate when 2 people [same or opposite sex] make a commitment to each other. Sex is NOT for making babies, SEX IS SOLELY FOR THE ULTIMATE EXPRESSION OF YOUR LOVE FOR THE PERSON U HAVE MADE A COMMITMENT TO. IT IS ALSO A REQUIREMENT FOR YOUR MARRIAGE THAT U SHARE SEXUALLY THUS EXPRESSING YOUR LOVE ON A REGULAR BASIS! SEE MY PROFILE FOR MORE EXPLANATION ON MARRIAGE!
- The important thing for U is to develop your communication skills; communication has very little to do with sharing it is about 95% listening, but even more how U listen - U need to listen to your wife BECAUSE U VALUE HER OPINION - DON'T BASE YOUR MARRIAGE VALUES ON RELIGIOUS TEACHINGS, U ARE NOT THE HEAD OF YOUR FAMILY/MARRIAGE - IT IS AN EQUAL PARTNERSHIP, THIS IS HOW THE ULTIMATE SPIRIT MEANT THINGS TO BE - THE TEACHINGS OF RELIGIONS HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH THE ULTIMATE SPIRIT [U may use the name God].
- So talk with your wife, decide if U both want to start a family - starting a family happens after two people share their love as they are meant to.
Hope this helps U Mr Guest
Dennis