My boyfriend and I have been together a year and a half plus 2 days, we love each other and lost our virginity to each other during the summer. I'm 18, and he's 17, a year, month, and a day younger ^ ^ anyway, when we have sex it's good, but I've been craving a...how should I say...Kinkier sex, with like bondage, rape (by him only of course) and such. We've made a few attempts before, but, poor thing, he's too gentle and loving to don the persona of sexual monster. He can't do it and while I'm amused and comfort him then make love, I feel some disappointment. Recently I've turned to some hentai to kind of fill the spot and some arousal in the kinky area. I don't know, maybe it's the gemini in me but I love to experiment everything at least once. My sex life isn't bad but, to quote the Little Mermaid, "I want more..." (Lol) Plus I know I shouldn't be complaining because he's such a sweet, gentle lover, but is wanting a tiny dose of evil to spice things up bad? What should we do? Any advice is much appreciated.
i am just wondering have u talked to him about your feeling and what u want or not? than i will know wher u stand with him in terms
Odam is right about this
yes about the kinky stuff, but not about the hentai and such to fill the spot, but at the same time i don't know how to put it that he won't feel like he's not good enough in bed or something like that...he's good at making love, but has trouble trying to be kinky and either overdoes it or can't altogether...
btw that "guest" is me! my bad
Well when u r makeing love if u try to lead him or u be incharge and try that if that does not work I will give u some more suggestions
Hope it helps
Hope it helps
Hi there, my husband and i have been together for 22 years and the sex has never been greater, I too like kinkier sex, Rough, but tasteful if that's possible lol, my husband seems the same he is a lover not a fighter every now and then i will tell him what i want and he performs wonderfully then it goes back to the norm (Which is fantastic) but being a scorpio and he a pieces we make wonderful sex partners but i want it a little more kinkier, and forceful then him.. So i have decided to just do what i want, when i want it rough he goes with the flow and just follows my moves lately it's been working out great. Make it fun get into the mood, lights out candles on and just take over him tell him this is what you want, take over him and let him see how you like it, he will want to after you seduce him he will be too excited and it will be new for him to explore, grab a toy a stimulate let him play with you...don't give up just show him the way lol.... Hope this helps....