So here it goes,
I am in a relationship and have only been in it for about a year now. I am 6 months pregnant and i dont know what to do. My boyfriend emotionally abuses me and sometimes physically. Im tired of being scared not only for myself but for my baby. We dont live together but when i am at his house he gets angry alot, and has a short temper. He says mean things and if i do something wrong he hurts me. I love him alot and i want him to be in my babys life but i dont know what to do. I tried telling him to change his ways and he says hes trying but its just not happening! It just bothers me the fact that we cant even have one decent day together without him getting mad. Some one help.
Hi, i'm going to be a bit blunt about this. You are a mother now. What you want, and how much you love this man no longer matters. Your baby comes first, always. If your baby is in potientially in harms way, then you need to do whats right and stay away from him, OR have supervised visits with two other adults (witnesses) so that you arne't alone with him, or your baby isnt alone with him. I dont know your age or living situation, but this isnt a healthy relationship. What's to stop him from getting angry, pushing you, and you falling down the stairs while pregnant. it could happen. Or falling over onto your stomach? You may love him, but..its no longer about you. I hope you find someone who treats you right and that he can be involved in your babies life safely.
If he really wants to be in your child's life, then maybe having him prove hes going to anger management.