hey there,
I was wondering for a while why all sex partners I had finish so fast? one of my boyfriends for sure had some problems, but later I have noticed that others finish fast too, only if it's a second or third time during a night the duration is longer. maybe there is something wrong with me not with those guys? cheers in advance!
Seems to me that your partners suffer from a very common man problem called Premature ejaculation.
They haven't learned to control the urge to ejaculate, or they don't care.
Sometimes it also can be a selfish act, not to give the other person some placer before your own.
some men only last 20 seconds to 3 minutes and i would say they have a problem.
Because woman can take 10- 15 minutes just to get in the mood, when men can unload in 60 seconds.
You need to talk to your partner and make him see your sexual needs, if he is a good man he will respond positive and help you achieve an orgasm before his own. Good luck.
What do you consider too fast? Are you watching internet porn and expecting something like that? What may appear to be a half hour of serious well drilling before hitting water is the result of a lot of editing and you have no way to know how many times the guy may have come during the process. Naturally they are only going to show one money shot.
Many, probably most, guys will come in less than a minute when they are young. If they are really turned on by you it could be only seconds.
You might consider it a tribute to your desirability when that happens rather than thinking there is something wrong with you --- or him.
When njoy was young his little head couldn't hold back at all when it met ms. soft, warm, happy place. He was lucky to get inside before spewing out his happy juice.
Now, if you keep the same lover for a while I'm sure he/you can retrain him to provide you with the pleasure you desire. What I did was to thoroughly warm up my wife to the point of her satisfaction before I let little njoy go to his desired place. Normally little njoy would spill his contents all over the sheets during this process so by the time he was allowed in it took him a lot longer to do it again. With some practice you/he will be able to adjust the timing of this to maximize the pleasure for both of you.
It's all in the timing and that takes practice. For me practicing sex was never a chore and when you get it right it's really rewarding.
im having the same problem. all my BF are way to fast, i have talked to a few about it but they get closed off on the subject. now with the Bf im with now hes older and people have told me when your partner is older they last longer. but still he finishes way to soon, even on the second round. the longest hes lasted is not even 5 min. i have tried the jelly and cream and all the rest im really concerned its me.
It IS you. You're so hot he can't stand it.
What's wrong with that?
masturbation is some thing that helps like the stop and go technique .... im a guy and if i did not masturbate i could not last how ever long i want to i can choose 10 seconds or 2 hours ... he has to learn control also if you don't orgasm in that time get him too finger u with a put the pointer and middle finger in and make a come here motion you will have a squirting orgasm in minutes :) hope that helps :)