I’m 20 and I lost my virginity in January this year, my boyfriend is really big and the first time hurt so bad, I didn’t enjoy a thing about it. The sadest part is that I have never enjoyed sex because it still hurts when he enters and I also get the urge to have sh*t every single time he is inside me or even fart. I can’t even have an orgasm because I’m always focused on not doing anything embarrassing. I love him so much but I don’t know why I can’t enjoy sex like all the girls
Hi bunny, there could be several reasons why you don't enjoy sex from the simple fact of your boyfriend being big and the pain it caused you first time causing you to tense up rather than stay relaxed or the simple fact your not turned on enough so your vagina hasn't expanded enough to take him, are you using condoms or unprotected and have you tried using lubricants?