have been telling my ob/gyn that I was haveing a lot of pain when i pee and i have to pee alot. I do drink a lot of water but i don't understand the pain. The main reason why I told her was because it hurts very bad when my husband and i have sex. And sometimes the bed be very wet and I know it can't all come from climaax. Because I never do because of the pain. She told me to use ureele when i'm about to have sex to relax my bladder but i haven't had sex since January i just can't right now. do anyone else have this problem? Because I'm going to have to come up with something because my time is running out with telling my husband i don't feel like it. help %-)
i sympathise with your problem. it does sound as if you may have bladder infection, and dr sould treat u for your symptoms, to make life more comfortable for you.
with regard to having sex with husband, again i can understand why you dont feel like doing it with him.
hopefully he understands that u have a problem, and that he can always masturbate to relieve his tension.
if he and u are finding the situation difficult, u can try letting him suck your nipples, and gently rubbing your clitoris, using lube if necessary, for around 10 to 20 mins.
this often brings a lady to her climax, and will relieve any sexual tension you have building up, and hopefully wont agravate your urinal problems.
it may bring relief to you to release some tension. and you may feel better that husband has had some sexual activity with you, so that you dont feel you are denying him completely.
if he can bring you to your orgasm that way, and you are comortable with it, perhaps you can then help him to get his release.
but ideally u need the root causes of your problem solved , for the bensfit of both of you, and certainly for your comfort.
with regard to having sex with husband, again i can understand why you dont feel like doing it with him.
hopefully he understands that u have a problem, and that he can always masturbate to relieve his tension.
if he and u are finding the situation difficult, u can try letting him suck your nipples, and gently rubbing your clitoris, using lube if necessary, for around 10 to 20 mins.
this often brings a lady to her climax, and will relieve any sexual tension you have building up, and hopefully wont agravate your urinal problems.
it may bring relief to you to release some tension. and you may feel better that husband has had some sexual activity with you, so that you dont feel you are denying him completely.
if he can bring you to your orgasm that way, and you are comortable with it, perhaps you can then help him to get his release.
but ideally u need the root causes of your problem solved , for the bensfit of both of you, and certainly for your comfort.