PRECUM AND PREGNANCY

Hello! I have slightly different opinion and am willing to share.

To answer your first question…if you inserted your penis for just a few seconds, there probably wasn’t any pre cum at all. Even if there were some, the chances of impregnating your girlfriend were almost non-existent

I am not sure that I understood your 2nd question correctly, so I will try to explain my own way or the way I see it.
The chances of having semen in the pre cum are minimal. This hasn’t been determined yet but it is believed that if you had ejaculated before and not urinated, there is a possibility that traces of semen were left in the urethra. If you haven’t ejaculated previously, there is no semen in the urethra. If you ejaculated and urinated after it, then you probably cleared all the semen that was in the urethra.

I hope you find this helpful, if you have any other question, feel free to ask me, and I will try to answer them if I have knowledge of it.

Hello..Im a 21 yr old girl who comes from a strict culture that claims if a girl lost her virginity before marriage she will be punished or so something even scarier...ive read all these useful topics about hymen breakage and those other things can cause it..i have a few questions that i would really appreciate getting answers for.
I was with my boyfriend yesterday, we fooled around..he had entered one finger into my vagina then he entered two...i felt wetness thinking it was me, it turned out that he broke my hymen with his fingers :( i was really upset to be honest and it got me really scared because i was bleeding as if it was my first day of period (and it wasn't my period) !! i was bleeding for approx 24 hrs and luckily the bleeding stopped. Im just wondering when i have sex again, will i still be able to bleed after intercourse? im assumig this because he tried putting the tip of his penis into my vagina the top part of the vagina, (between the clitoris glans) no where near the vulva i suppose. it was hurting too much and i told him to stop. fortunately, he did not precum or ejaculated before he entered his penis but it was actually dry but my vagina wasnt, so he kept on adding saliva to the surface of my vagina for lubrication..he only put the head of his penis in for a couple of seconds then he removed it. i doubt that he had precum cuz i didnt feel anything and when i asked him he said he was dry and i was the one who was wet at that time. but what im not totally sure of is that is it possible i could get pregnant this way? weather he had precum or not..

How long does a guy precum and what makes a male precum during foreplay?

Oh yeah, a thing im really sure of is that he had taken a shower b4 he did anything and i know that everytime im with him, it takes him a while to precum...his penis was dry most of the time..strangely even while im giving him a blow job i dont feel his precum at all ! is that normal?

i know i talked too much but PLEASE im beggin you, i had no 1 to talk to about this sensitive subject and honest to god im scared to death ! this is a nightmare and i promised my self NO MORE penis near my vagina until im married :s PLZ HELP !!!!!!!!!!!!!! :(

lost_soul wrote:

Hello..Im a 21 yr old girl who comes from a strict culture that claims if a girl lost her virginity before marriage she will be punished or so something even scarier...ive read all these useful topics about hymen breakage and those other things can cause it..i have a few questions that i would really appreciate getting answers for.
I was with my boyfriend yesterday, we fooled around..he had entered one finger into my vagina then he entered two...i felt wetness thinking it was me, it turned out that he broke my hymen with his fingers :( i was really upset to be honest and it got me really scared because i was bleeding as if it was my first day of period (and it wasn't my period) !! i was bleeding for approx 24 hrs and luckily the bleeding stopped. Im just wondering when i have sex again, will i still be able to bleed after intercourse? im assumig this because he tried putting the tip of his penis into my vagina the top part of the vagina, (between the clitoris glans) no where near the vulva i suppose. it was hurting too much and i told him to stop. fortunately, he did not precum or ejaculated before he entered his penis but it was actually dry but my vagina wasnt, so he kept on adding saliva to the surface of my vagina for lubrication..he only put the head of his penis in for a couple of seconds then he removed it. i doubt that he had precum cuz i didnt feel anything and when i asked him he said he was dry and i was the one who was wet at that time. but what im not totally sure of is that is it possible i could get pregnant this way? weather he had precum or not..

How long does a guy precum and what makes a male precum during foreplay?

Oh yeah, a thing im really sure of is that he had taken a shower b4 he did anything and i know that everytime im with him, it takes him a while to precum...his penis was dry most of the time..strangely even while im giving him a blow job i dont feel his precum at all ! is that normal?

i know i talked too much but PLEASE im beggin you, i had no 1 to talk to about this sensitive subject and honest to god im scared to death ! this is a nightmare and i promised my self NO MORE penis near my vagina until im married :s PLZ HELP !!!!!!!!!!!!!! :(

Every time I let my boyfriend ejaculate in me and it happens that my period is late that month I promise myself that I won’t let him do that anymore, then every time it gets so great that sometimes I don’t want him to ejaculate anywhere else but in me.
I am almost sure it will be the same with you because sex is addictive, you just can’t say no to it!

In my personal opinion there was no way you could have gotten from any of the things you did, especially not that precum he has when he gets aroused. My boyfriend always has precum. It doesn’t matter if your boyfriend has visible precum or not, every guy has it, some more, some less, so does your boyfriend.

Pre-cum a.k.a pre-ejaculate is secreted by Cowper's glands when a man gets aroused or just before the orgasm. It has two functions-to lubricate the foreskin and head of the penis. It is also released just before an ejaculate to get the urethra ready for the semen passage and to neutralize acidity if there is any residual urine. Some people say there is sperm in the precum but researches showed that there isn’t but that it could be picked up if some of the sperm was left from previous ejaculation.

As for your virginity and the bleeding part, it is really impossible to know especially because you bled so much. On the other hand, if it were a bit painful when he tried to insert his penis, it could mean that there is still some hymen left.
In order to know, you need to have an exam.

i'm in the same boat as you rex, i had sex with my g/f during her ovulation but i didn't orgasm, she said I had precum but I didn't notice that I did. I had masturbated about 9 hours before we had sex, but had urniated at least once between ejactulations. she took the morning after pill the day after we had sex but i'm still worried. it seems like she becomes pregnant very easily so i'm still worried, even knowing i was working with a lowered sperm count, had peed before we had sex at least once if not more times, and that she took the morning after pill. I have about 3.5 weeks to wait yet though so we both are scared. can't seem to find any real information about semen in the precum, just evidence to support yes and no...definately confusing!!!

this is defiantely a mistake i'll never make again!

I just had sex with my girlfriend and used the pullout method. I didn't come in her, but I most likely had some precum in her. I used a condom till the last 2 minutes and I took it off. I masturbated last night, about 9 or 10 hours before i did this morning, and peed two times and took a shower and cleaned off. She's been off her period for almost a week now. should I be worried? Is ECP the best thing to do now?

Referring back to the girl from strict culture.

Yes, you can get pregnant from pre cum. I am 5 months pregnant now.
We have 4 kids. I just had my IUD removed, and in the process of getting my tubes tied. My husband definately does not want another kid. So , while in the midst of all that, he used the pull out method before ejaculation. We are sure he did not ejaculate inside. Next thing I know, I felt nausea, headaches, and tired. Did a home test kit, the result was a positive. Did a blood draw at doctors. It proved that I was pregnant.

What happens is the men develops so many sperm inside their sacks a day that the chance of it escaping and mixing in with the semen is a possibility.

So, hope you can abstain from sex.
Also, if this guy knows about the stickness of your culture, and he cares about you, he should know not to mess around with you in that way.
After all, you'll be the person to suffer the consequences.