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Finally, a major source of holiday stress comes in dealing with relationships. Family and friends can be a source of joy during the holidays, but too much time in close quarters with even the dearest loved ones can lead to fighting, bickering, and upsets. For the sake of your health and your ties to your loved ones, consider these four ways of avoiding relationship health busters.
9. When needed, agree to disagree
The holidays may be the one time of year you have to spend a great deal of time with relatives with whom you do not share views on important life issues. If you do not care to discuss the validity of your sexual orientation, your choices in intimate relationships, how you raise your children, why you chose your job, how you spend your money, your religion, or your politics, then don't. And if the other person makes the entire visit about telling you why you are wrong, consider ending it early. There are worse things than not seeing certain people on the holidays.
10. When needed, feel free to say no
Sometimes other people in your life simply don't know where your boundaries are. A polite “no” to unreasonable requests is far better than agreeing to things that cause you inner turmoil or resentment.
11. Plan a breather
Even on the busiest day of the holidays, try to allow a few minutes to be by yourself. This is especially true if you have everyday responsibilities for children or elderly people. Let it be known that giving you some time off from your child care or elder care responsibilities would be a welcome gift.
12. Don't be disappointed by having a good time
Most of us have some holiday experiences that are “perfect.” Very few of us have them every year. Allow yourself the freedom to take care of yourself while you provide your loved ones with the best holiday you can, always leaving something to look forward to next year.
Final words
In conclusion, navigating the festive season while maintaining good health requires a mindful approach to the challenges presented by traditional Christmas indulgences. By being aware of common health busters such as excessive caloric intake, overconsumption of alcohol, and the temptation to abandon regular exercise routines, individuals can enjoy the festivities without compromising their health.
Adopting strategies like portion control, choosing healthier alternatives, and staying active are key to balancing enjoyment with wellbeing. It's important to remember that moderation is crucial; indulging in holiday treats is part of the seasonal joy, but it should be done thoughtfully. Furthermore, prioritizing hydration, adequate sleep, and stress management can significantly contribute to maintaining one's health during this busy time.
Ultimately, the goal is not to forgo the pleasures of the season but to embrace them in a way that respects and supports our health and wellness. By doing so, we can fully enjoy the spirit of the holiday season, ensuring that we enter the New Year feeling refreshed and rejuvenated.
- Feiler, Bruce. Time-Shifting Holidays. New York Times, 18 November 2010
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