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i just want to say to this person here that.

condom's breaks and the pill isn't always reliable.

do you have nothing else to do than to come on website that people are asking for help to put them down, why don't you get a life that would be a smart thing and stop coming on these website when there are people around the world asking for help and your passing judgment that isn't the smart thing too.

how about you think of this. not even 1/2 of the population around the world plane to get pregnant it is a fact of life and people come on here to ask for help so they don't make the wrong decision but i guess you have never asked for advice thats why you sit here and pass judgment to those who don't need to be judge. judging people is worst the thing that anyone can do. so never time you get judge i hope you cry because it's only karma
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Bright hello I am 35y/o female with 12 years in the Air Force. I have gone on to become an EMT-Firefighter. I would not recommend you abort your child. There are so many peolpe like myself who would love to adopt your child. I had to have a hysterectomy when I was younger so I never had the opportunity to birth a child. I am looking to adopt NOW. My partner is a police officer of 9 years recently promoted from detective to sergeant. we have 2 cats and 1 dog. we believe family comes first above all. we like to camp, fish, mtn bike ride, and spend time outside alot. I have three other sisters who are very close and they have children. If you are willing to not get an abortion, we could talk about adoption.
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hey hun. im not sure how late this is getting to you, and im sorry if im to late but id really like to talk to you about this. & i might even be years late @ this lol. i just found this site and i wanted to find a girl that need to talk to someone, and u seemed like someone that needed it. i can only imagine how you must feel, or must of felt. finding out that you're pregnant, especially at the at of 16 , would be the most life changing thing everr. then having your boyfriend leave you, probably makes it feel like life isnt going to continue. but the problem is, if you arent sure hes the father, then that means you werent really in a dedicated relationship, which you should get together. considering an abortion is really a huge step in life. do you realize what your taking away? that baby has no say in it. you didnt ask for the baby, but its not being asked to be aborted. it may be to little to speak, but it sure if big enough to live. i hope i helped you some way, but id like to explain everything alot more and be able to talk to you, so if you want, thanks girl(:
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Im 16 years old.. and i had a abortion because everyone was telling me it was the best thing to do.. Straight after i regretted it deeply but ofcourse it was to late. 4 months later i found out i was pregnant again by the same person (unplanned again) now im 6months gone and havent once regretted keeping my baby. Im not saying keep the baby but i suggest you think LONG AND HARD, take what people are saying into consideration but in the end to what you want and make sure you have no doubts about what your going to do. Good Luck and All the best
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Hey Dnt Give Up Yur Baby Im 16 Years Old & Have A One Year Old Dauqther My Baby Daddy Left Me Too Bt I Had Got Bck With Him & He Became Very Abbusive He Is Now In Jail. I Did It On My Own At Aqe 15 With No Job I Only Had My Dad Just Dont Do Abortion Because Once They Are Older Yu Realize Yu Made A Good Choice. I Never Thouqht Ov Abortion Yu Kaint Do That To A Baby Who Is Innocent Either Give It Up For Adoption Or Keep It. 8-|
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well let's not forget that abortion is incredibly hard on your body and in som instances may make it difficult to concieve in the future. There is also the emotional toll it takes on you after 25 years my sister still wonders how things would have been if she had had the baby and put it up for adoption. Abortion is not a quick fix, if you choose that route to perserve your sanity in years to come it is best to start counseling and go through the grieving process. There is also adoption as an option ranging from open where you have some contact, receive pictures may have visits to closed with no contact you pretty much can set the rules. Whatever you decide it is your body and your choice. In the future remember the importance of birth control:)
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