Hi, I'm 17 years old and me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 6 months now. When we first started fooling around about 2 months into our relationship everything was great, I was constantly hard when i was with her. But we tried having sex and the first time I was very nervous and it was outside so it was kind of cold and I couldnt get hard enough, but we tried it again on another setting and we did it. well we did it about twice more and now when I go to do it I just cant get hard. It happened at first and I stressed it so much and then the next couple of days we tried again and I got rock hard. well it was on and off like that for a couple weeks and now I cant even get fully hard masturbating. Ive been so stressed about it since it first happened 2 months ago. Do i have ED at 17? do i need viagra? please someone help.
Been there.
I don't think you have ED and you don't need Viagra.
You already know what it is, your stressed out. That will do it to any guy. As to not getting fully hard masturbating it's probably related. You'r afraid you won't get hard.
Why are you stressed? You said you were doing it outside so you were probably afraid of getting caught or in a hurry. Neither of those conditions make for an easy time getting hard. Are you using protection? You know what can happen, even if you don't admit it your body does, and may have concerns with pregnancy.
There's a lot of mental energy that goes into sex. You need to try to find a way to relax.
How did your girl handle it? Talk to her about what's happening, yes, seriously. If she's for you she'll understand and help you with this. Once you've gotten more comfortable I don't think you'll have any long term problems.
I don't think you have ED and you don't need Viagra.
You already know what it is, your stressed out. That will do it to any guy. As to not getting fully hard masturbating it's probably related. You'r afraid you won't get hard.
Why are you stressed? You said you were doing it outside so you were probably afraid of getting caught or in a hurry. Neither of those conditions make for an easy time getting hard. Are you using protection? You know what can happen, even if you don't admit it your body does, and may have concerns with pregnancy.
There's a lot of mental energy that goes into sex. You need to try to find a way to relax.
How did your girl handle it? Talk to her about what's happening, yes, seriously. If she's for you she'll understand and help you with this. Once you've gotten more comfortable I don't think you'll have any long term problems.
Hello young man,
Can you get an erection other times like when you're sleeping or when you wake up? If so then you're probably having performance anxiety. Sometimes when you put too much pressure on yourself then your penis can't get hard because you can't relax. Just relax yourself and enjoy your girlfriend and let things happen naturally and you'll be able to do the job.
Can you get an erection other times like when you're sleeping or when you wake up? If so then you're probably having performance anxiety. Sometimes when you put too much pressure on yourself then your penis can't get hard because you can't relax. Just relax yourself and enjoy your girlfriend and let things happen naturally and you'll be able to do the job.