Well I have read through alot of threads/posts to try and answer both my questions, but unfortunatly I couldn't find a good enough answer.
I am 16 years of age, and have planned to have sex in just 3 weeks, when I meet up with a girl. Of course I am a virgin, and scared that I will not please her the way that I want to. (She knows I am a virgin)...
Firstly, will sex hurt for me the first time I do it? I can pull the foreskin way back whilst not erect, but whilst I am, I find it hard to pull it near the end of my head. It gets about half way down and it's as if it 'sticks' in that spot, coz I find it hard to pull down...
Secondly, I have tried now and again to touch my head to try and toughen it up, but when I leave it for any longer than 12 hours, It goes back to being sensitive again. Is there anyway I can 'toughen' it up? As I would like oral, but don't want to flinch every second whilst having it.
Thanks in advance for any answers!
I am 16 years of age, and have planned to have sex in just 3 weeks, when I meet up with a girl. Of course I am a virgin, and scared that I will not please her the way that I want to. (She knows I am a virgin)...
Firstly, will sex hurt for me the first time I do it? I can pull the foreskin way back whilst not erect, but whilst I am, I find it hard to pull it near the end of my head. It gets about half way down and it's as if it 'sticks' in that spot, coz I find it hard to pull down...
Secondly, I have tried now and again to touch my head to try and toughen it up, but when I leave it for any longer than 12 hours, It goes back to being sensitive again. Is there anyway I can 'toughen' it up? As I would like oral, but don't want to flinch every second whilst having it.
Thanks in advance for any answers!
Hi Macky1, i really don't think that you first sexual experience will be painful. If the girl is virgin, then it might hurt her.
I don't know why are you trying to toughen your head. You now that your penis is sponge tissue and when is erected it is filled with blood, and that is what makes him hard. Just take it easy during your first sexual experience and you will be fine.
I don't know why are you trying to toughen your head. You now that your penis is sponge tissue and when is erected it is filled with blood, and that is what makes him hard. Just take it easy during your first sexual experience and you will be fine.
Well I was meaning more like would it hurt if the foreskin isn't pulled back fully while inserting?
I was meaning the sensitivity of the head, I would like to be able to touch it without flinching, which is hard at the moment.
I was meaning the sensitivity of the head, I would like to be able to touch it without flinching, which is hard at the moment.
Well the flinching is in most cases normal in begging. After some time you will get used to it and there won't be a problem.
Also about your skin, you might fill some unpleasant filling at first, but it should go away. Try using some lubricants for more satisfaction.
Also about your skin, you might fill some unpleasant filling at first, but it should go away. Try using some lubricants for more satisfaction.
Your first time should not be painful. It might be a little surprising and there may be some unexpected sensations but it won't be painful. I do want to encourage you to use condoms the first time you have sex, however. I hadn't seen any mention of it in your first post--not to sound like I'm passing judgment, but using a condom is a good idea because it prevents both pregnancy and STDs so you can continue to enjoy sex for many years to come. Use lubricant on the condom and on your partner, and you should be fine. Let us know how it goes.
Yeah I have the condoms, not to worry XD
Thank you guys for your help, much appreciated!
Thank you guys for your help, much appreciated!
Well I'm glad that I was helpful. It good that you have condoms, it shows that you really care about yourself and your partner. And that is one of most important things during sex. Keep us posted about how did it go, and did it hurt. :-) all the best and enjoy.
Heh, I'm very glad to hear that you're using condoms! Like I said, it's good to avoid a lot of unnecessary heartache your first time, and it's also good because it can reduce sensitivity so that your first time won't be very painful. I forgot to mention that you will want to put one little drop of water-based lube inside the condom before you put it on so that you don't rub yourself raw. Again--thanks for posting. And keep us posted on it!