Ugh ok i am 17. i had 1 child she is 8 months now i just found out im pregnant. i have an abortion scheduled for Monday but i dont know if i should do it. im young i have help but i REALLLY dont need another baby. i dont plan on staying with this man i just want to start getting my life back together again. this will put me back so far, mentally and physically, i dont think i can do it all over again... but i just dont like the idea of "killing the baby". i'll be six weeks the day of my thing please what should i do?
Hello, first of all, im sorry for the situation, and i am glad you want to get your like back in order, very proud of you. Now killing the baby is no option, the child didnt ask to be in you womb, that was a desition you took on your own and you didt think things completely trough if you got pregnant again. Now im not saying its your fault but you can think about adoption for the baby if you think its to much for you. But please dont kill an innocent life that God gave in your trust. Think about it. Hope this helps.
I DON'T WANT TO COME OFF HARSH, BUT THIS IS YOUR FAULT. YOU ARE OLD ENOUGH TO KNOW WHAT CAUSES PREGNACY AREN'T YOU? NOW THIS IS A VERY TOUCHY SUBJECT FOR ALMOST EVERYONE ON PLANET EARTH. PLEASE, PLEASE DON'T ABORT THAT INNOCENT LIFE. I DON'T KNOW YOUR RELIGIOUS BELIEFS SO I WON'T USE GOD TO TRY TO GET THROUGH TO YOU. HOWEVER THERE ARE THOUSANDS OF GREAT WOMEN OUT THERE WHO DON'T HAVE THE SPECIAL CHANCE YOU'VE BEEN GIVEN TWICE. I KNOW THAT THERE ARE ALSO HUNDREDS OF TERRIBLE WOMEN OUT THERE WHO DON'T APPRECIATE THE GIFT THEY WERE GIVEN ALSO. PLEASE ALLOW THIS BABY TO LIVE. YOUR CHANCE OF ALLOWING ONE OF THOSE LESS FORTUNATE WOMEN TO GIVE LOVE MAY BE FAR GREATER THAN YOU MAY EVER KNOW. THERE ARE SOME ADOPTION AGENCIES THAT WILL ALLOW YOU TO KEEP TABS ON YOUR CHILD (but from a distance). SO YOU CAN STILL HAVE THE LIFE YOU WANT AND YOU MAY ALSO HELP SOMEONE ELSE (the baby) IN THE PROCESS. I'M SURE MILLIONS OF US WERE ABORTIONS WAITING TO HAPPEN BUT OUR MOTHERS ALLOWED US THE CHANCE OF A LIFETIME. MAYBE THIS COULD BE A LIFE CHANGING EXPERIENCE FOR YOU AND A MAYBE-MOMMY. PLEASE DON'T LET ALL THE NEGATIVES LEAD YOU TO THAT ABORTION APPOINTMENT.
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Sorry to hear about what you are dealing with but the decision to have an abortion is yours and only yours. You will get a ton of feedback, some not so nice, but everyone is entitled to an opinion. (within reason)
I had two procedures when i was younger, so i am no one to judge you.
You have to do what you feel is best for you and your baby, and you do have options here, one being abortion, adoption or raising your baby yourself.
After i had my procedure i did feel bad and i felt selfish, but it passed. I do think about it on occasion, but it does not rule my thoughts. I know the decision i made at that particular time was the best one for me.
If you go ahead with the procedure, might i suggest some after care with a counselor. You are already feeling bad and it will get worse afterwards. A counselor will help you get thru your feelings of guilt, you will have them for sure.
Well, it's Monday. Please let us know what decision that you made. It'll be alright either way. This does not make you a bad person either.
Sorry to hear about what you are dealing with but the decision to have an abortion is yours and only yours. You will get a ton of feedback, some not so nice, but everyone is entitled to an opinion. (within reason)
I had two procedures when i was younger, so i am no one to judge you.
You have to do what you feel is best for you and your baby, and you do have options here, one being abortion, adoption or raising your baby yourself.
After i had my procedure i did feel bad and i felt selfish, but it passed. I do think about it on occasion, but it does not rule my thoughts. I know the decision i made at that particular time was the best one for me.
If you go ahead with the procedure, might i suggest some after care with a counselor. You are already feeling bad and it will get worse afterwards. A counselor will help you get thru your feelings of guilt, you will have them for sure.
Well, it's Monday. Please let us know what decision that you made. It'll be alright either way. This does not make you a bad person either.