i am 44, I was married for 25 years one man never had an orgasm, left my husband not for that reason.......... but i discovered i like sex. and i think im having an orgasm i gush? i sometimes wonder if it is pee?... i am embarrased. am i wierd, my partner said he has never been with a woman that gushes? what is going on....????????? i have never been good at asking sexually oriented questions. for me to ask is major, and desperate, am i wierd? will my partner think its wierd, will he leave?
Yes! You are having an orgasm!! in fact, it appears that certain women are actually TRYING to achieve this "gushing" sensation! Read the comments in this link: http://blogs.webmd.com/sexual-health-sex-matters/2007/03/how-tension-and-relaxation-are.html
You will read all different kinds of views redarding gushing. Many times, I have felt that the orgasm is so intenst that I al going to loose all control, and perhaps pee. But aparantly that woul dbe a gush.
You're partner should learn to accept that it is a new experience-- and just because he has never been with a woman who gushs, does not mean that it's weird. It's actually quite common.
You will read all different kinds of views redarding gushing. Many times, I have felt that the orgasm is so intenst that I al going to loose all control, and perhaps pee. But aparantly that woul dbe a gush.
You're partner should learn to accept that it is a new experience-- and just because he has never been with a woman who gushs, does not mean that it's weird. It's actually quite common.
oregina is correct. It is the amount of fluids your body chooses to ejaculate when you have an orgasm. Some women ejaculate more than others. Some none at all.
As far as your partner goes, he will have to choose whether he can live with it or not.
As far as your partner goes, he will have to choose whether he can live with it or not.