I'm a virgin girl, and I've been masterbating by squeezing my legs together with force over and over again until I orgasm. Is this bad? Will it damage my genitials? How do I stop this? If I don't stop, will it damage my later sexual experiences?
No you will not damage yourself in anyway if you masturbate like that. Remember, your vagina is where babies come from, it is actually built to withstand rough usage. You will not damage your genitals if you decide not to masturbate but some studies show that masturbating boosts your sense of self. It also cleans and gives the sexual organs exercise. If you feel this is the way you are most comfortable masturbating, then there is nothing wrong with it. Remember masturbating is perfectly natural, don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
Well what I do is
get my index and middle finger
put them together
and put them on my p***y
and just go in a circular motion. is that
the right way?
get my index and middle finger
put them together
and put them on my p***y
and just go in a circular motion. is that
the right way?
when I materbate I'm not entirely sure I orgasm. I rub my clit then my muscles get all tense and sometimes I get muscle spasms and my clit gets like hardish and I can't touch it more cause it feels wierd then I stop. Sometimes the muscle things happen and I keep going till it happens again is that multiple orgasms? Ohh im 15 btw
All i do is rub. i dont know what else to try, plus my mom doesn't know, so what could i use without her knowing except for my fingers???
If you have a shower hose that can be dissconnected fromt he wall, while in the shower put it on "jet" and put it up to your "pleasure spot" its alot safer and you wont stink up the room!!!
Hmmm> wrote:
It certainly sounds like you're describing multiple orgasms, if the muscle pulsing occurs multiple times if you keep going.
The fact that your clit "gets hard" indicates high arousal... though in some women, the clit will retract under the hood as high levels of arousal are reached.
Some women no longer desire contact with the clit at that point, while others prefer light continued circular motions to reach even higher levels of arousal and orgasm.
Most women will know when they've reached an orgasm due to the extreme sensitivity and the inability to continue. some will fall silent, some will moan, some will blank out for a short while, some will keep going and some will be able to continuously orgasm more powerful that the one before.
when I materbate I'm not entirely sure I orgasm. I rub my clit then my muscles get all tense and sometimes I get muscle spasms and my clit gets like hardish and I can't touch it more cause it feels wierd then I stop. Sometimes the muscle things happen and I keep going till it happens again is that multiple orgasms? Ohh im 15 btw
It certainly sounds like you're describing multiple orgasms, if the muscle pulsing occurs multiple times if you keep going.
The fact that your clit "gets hard" indicates high arousal... though in some women, the clit will retract under the hood as high levels of arousal are reached.
Some women no longer desire contact with the clit at that point, while others prefer light continued circular motions to reach even higher levels of arousal and orgasm.
Most women will know when they've reached an orgasm due to the extreme sensitivity and the inability to continue. some will fall silent, some will moan, some will blank out for a short while, some will keep going and some will be able to continuously orgasm more powerful that the one before.
guest wrote:
Oh, I wouldn't be too sure about that. Remember, she was young once too!
I would think that she could figure it out without too much help... from either the sounds coming from your bedroom, or the things that you've left laying around... or comments that you and your friends make. Remember, she was once young and ran with a pack also...and the girls talked about the same things and shared the same tips as you are seeking.
In fact, it's entirely possible that your mom is also masturbating in private to this very day... although possibly with a toy or an object...
There is no rule that says that married couples can't use toys, masturbate or continue their sexuality after having kids, either.
A few ideas for you:
some recommend a detactable water shower head to angle to that perfect positions.
Some recommend a small disposable electric toothbrush (the back side of the brush, not the bristles)
Some recommend a banana or cucumber or raw carrot... but because these are foods, they should be tossed out after use.
All i do is rub...... plus my mom doesn't know, ....
Oh, I wouldn't be too sure about that. Remember, she was young once too!
I would think that she could figure it out without too much help... from either the sounds coming from your bedroom, or the things that you've left laying around... or comments that you and your friends make. Remember, she was once young and ran with a pack also...and the girls talked about the same things and shared the same tips as you are seeking.
In fact, it's entirely possible that your mom is also masturbating in private to this very day... although possibly with a toy or an object...
There is no rule that says that married couples can't use toys, masturbate or continue their sexuality after having kids, either.
A few ideas for you:
some recommend a detactable water shower head to angle to that perfect positions.
Some recommend a small disposable electric toothbrush (the back side of the brush, not the bristles)
Some recommend a banana or cucumber or raw carrot... but because these are foods, they should be tossed out after use.
BE CAREFUL THAT THE WATER ONLY RUNS OFF YOUR GENITALS...AND IS NOT FORCED IN OR UP YOUR VAGINA. VERY SERIOUS COMPLICATIONS CAN RESULT FROM WATER FORCED UP A VAGINA... INCLUDING A TRIP TO THE E.R., COMPLICATIONS RESULTING IN LACK OF ABILITY TO HAVE CHILDREN....AND POSSIBLE DEATH!
How would you use the foods?
So what would the safe way be? Elaborate, please
use an electric toothbrush