I think there are actually two types of male anal orgasms. I started with prostate massage and milking. The results were very good and I enjoyed some good orgasms. During this early time of anal play I found that I could also enjoy just the touch of certain areas. After a lot of experimentation I was able to get full blown contractions without even touching the prostate. Recently I began giving my muscles a workout with a TENS device to strengthen my ability to clench better with my anus. This has also added/enhanced my orgasms.
The sweet spot for me seems to be the inner ring of the sphincter. The object does not have to be large or long, just a little contour to it on the end. Once I find the correct depth and speed I can orgasm in minutes. Sometimes I ejaculate but most times I do not. I can first feel it in my gut and then in my anus. Contractions begin with short bursts and increase in intensity until I am bearing down with all my might, gritting my teeth and howling like a maniac. They always leave me shaking, collapsed on the bed.
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It was fantastic a I had played with my self using a Very small dildo a few times
He was average size as such BUT very very thick and I straddled himm he on his back and me the same on my back with my legs wide apart
I came as he barely penetrated me and as he climaxed I did again
We rested for a while and I took him in my mouth and fingered his anus and OH WOW almost choked as I swallowed his love juice
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He then screwed me like a jackhammer while telling me he owned my ass. I was turned on and helpless.
What insued was an earth shattering anal orgasm that hit me like a rapid series of shockwaves of ecstacy that took over my entire body. It lasted for about five very long minutes at high intensity, then another five or more minutes of relaxing intensity. My body shook, spasmed and I didnt know what the heck was happening other than it felt so extreme.
This was no simple prostate orgasm, and I didn't ejaculate until later when he aggressively rimmed me.
That pleasure has not been easy for me to replicate, but I found it once more with a very aggressive and super hung partner.
Good luck to those who seek it. Well worth the effort!
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In our modern world, although historical and traditional aversions still exist regarding same sex activities and relationships, there is an unspoken sexual revolution being played out. Men are undergoing a shift in the sexual paradigm, they are taking it upon themselves to explore their own sexual needs and curiosities. In other words, men are coming to realise just how wide a spectrum sex has for them.
Sex is a healthy activity, but of course, sex is not just about physicality. If anything sex is more to do with the mind than with the body. Sex begins and ends in the mind. The body feels the sex so that the mind is satiated. That is what makes good sex.
I have had sex with men on only a few occasions (because that is where my mind's need took me) I am not fully gay...in that I do not live a gay lifestyle, I am bisexual, but rarely give it free reign to explore my male-on-male fantasy.
Only one guy has ever made me orgasm anally, and I found the experience quite intense, and the reason for this was because I utterly submitted to his loving sex play. He wasn't just into his own pleasure, he was also into mine, and he was an experienced 'top', very manly and muscular physically. Even giving this brief synopsis about it brings a slight arousal with the memory. We made love for hours, and afterwards the afterglow was an incredibly rich experience for me as I remained submissive in his embrace and quietness.
He wasn't a man with a big penis, probably around seven inch, but his first penetration was cumbersome, not on his part, but mine. Mentally I had not allowed myself to submit to him. I think he saw this as he switched back to foreplay and got me very aroused, and then he penetrated me again in the missionary position. I totally submitted to that, and as he slowly began his thrusts, I became more at ease with what was happening. He continued, kissing and caressing me, and I have got to tell you that the sensation of being penetrated whilst being kissed and caressed is incredible. I found myself grasping at him, pulling him into me and pushing myself onto him, when eventually a different sensation entered into my brain. My thighs were trembling with exertion, and I just could not get enough of him inside me, when suddenly this spasm of pleasure hit, just a brief moment, and I just melted into wholly. He had not stopped his thrusting, he was still piling away into me when another spasm hit, and then another and another. My own penis was flailing about hosing down his chest and my own, and just as the feeling started to subside, he grunted deep into me and came in a series of strong thrusts.
I felt weak, stomach and thighs trembling. He did not pull out (was wearing a condom) and we just lay there side by side and eventually fell asleep. It was the best sex I had ever experienced, and remains the best sexual memory.
The point of all this may not be lost on any of you reading. There is an ambience to sex that allows for good sex. It is when the physical and the mental combine and work together to its completion. Getting into a mutual groove for sex is what makes for good sex. It's not always achievable, but when it happens, it is great.
I have not experienced anal orgasm since then. Sex has been with women, but because of that memory I think I have an expectation of pleasure that a woman cannot give me; nor would I say that I am good with women, even though I know I have pleasured some of the ones I have been with. In fact, I have never had sex with another man since that time many years ago, but I may if I can come across the right one.
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It had been a long time scene I had any anal play,. but this morning I tried it again. I could feel that it was going to be a good one right away. As my body rose to the orgasm I could tell it was getting intense. then it hit! Wow! I couldn't continue moving and and my body began to convulse. I slipped into an altered state of conciseness and then my hearing seemed to go away. This was as a result of the pleasure I was experiencing. I was happy that I was on my knees because I began to become so focused that my eyes rolled back and I lost control of my muscles. This led to a time of shaking with no reality but the pleasure I was feeling. I kind of wondered if I had passed out but I don't think I did. It was great!
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1- best position for me is squatting
2- clenching and also pushing like our while thrusting in helps. BUT too much of this hurts. I've been working on these muscles
3- I'm always flaccid. Being hard makes me concentrate on whacking. It's punter productive
4- I avoid mostly the prostate. It makes me want to whack
5- I can get "queasy" or feel ill if I do not have an empty stomach. For this reason I do this in the AM
6- NEW. Breathing. Only one person mentioned it but I noticed if I breathe very deep and slow. Almost holding my breathe a bit I can achieve this longer than Panting like a woman in orgasm.
7- NEW. For hours after if I drive on a bumpy road or wiggle my ass in my chair or squeeze my butt cheeks as hard as I can I can get back some of the sensation like a "mini orgasm"
8- NEW. For me personally I think what's going on here is a journey to wake up these nerve endings and also a journey in mild BDSM. I am not into BDSM at all and only slightly bi and cross dress every once in a blue moon. None of that has anything to do with this. This is slight pain- endorphin release over and over. It's a biochemical reaction in my opinion and the more I try this the more it seems to work
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After first attempt though I liked it...there is little pain after closing.
Can anyone tell..what should be my next steps
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