Hi All,
I'm a bisexual 31 yo male and interested in trying gay anal sex for the first time, as a bottom.
Now I've got lube and a prostate massager (granted, probably not the best one!) and I occasionally use it. However, I have not been able to get the toy in very far. It feels like I hit a wall when I put it in my anus. Pain is not an issue (there is none), just feels like a dead end. Is this because I am too tight? Again, I am using plenty of lube and I do try to loosen myself up with fingering (not practical as hard to reach back there etc).
Any advice? The toy isn't very thick but I think there is a slightly smaller "plug" in the pack (need to check). I notice that I can get a lubed up pinky finger effortlessly up there, but it does feel like I can't locate the hole.
Any advice much appreciated
What you have to do is make yourself alone and pull down your pants and then make sure your penis is erect ... then grap your penis start a porn video and rub your penis skin up and down with ypur hands ... continue until you see a white fluid coming out of your penis...enjoy!!