I need advice, my b/f cheated on although he wont' fully admit he claims they just hung out and that was all that they did. but the girl called me when we were at a wedding she wanted me to know the truth and she states they have been sleeping together since they met. he met her thru a friend in july of this year and were seeing each other up til mid sept.
He begged me not to break up with him and said he loved me and no one else and loves me unconditionally and even agreed to cut all contact with her and changed his cell # so she would not reach him. Anyway its only Dec. and although i know he hasnt' been sleeping at her house cause he's been with me. He' possilbly may have seen her but would have had to be on his one day off during the week and he recieved text messages from her telling him she misses him and he lied to me and tried telling me its someone else and showed me the number but i recognize the # and he finally caved and said she contacted him at work and he gave her his new cell so that he can hook up someone else with her (yea right) 8-| he said that was the only contact since and I dont think hes' being honest. he says he wants to move in with me and get married, i dont know what to do because my gut tells me there still in communication with each other maybe not seeing each other but there still in communication and oh yea he tries to tell me the old line "well she's not attractive" and "no way she's like 46 that's way too old for me." so i really dont know how to handle this If i ask if he's still talking to her he tells me no and I have done my best to take his word - but i heard him getting a voice mail and i can hear thru his phone and it was her voice. :'(
He begged me not to break up with him and said he loved me and no one else and loves me unconditionally and even agreed to cut all contact with her and changed his cell # so she would not reach him. Anyway its only Dec. and although i know he hasnt' been sleeping at her house cause he's been with me. He' possilbly may have seen her but would have had to be on his one day off during the week and he recieved text messages from her telling him she misses him and he lied to me and tried telling me its someone else and showed me the number but i recognize the # and he finally caved and said she contacted him at work and he gave her his new cell so that he can hook up someone else with her (yea right) 8-| he said that was the only contact since and I dont think hes' being honest. he says he wants to move in with me and get married, i dont know what to do because my gut tells me there still in communication with each other maybe not seeing each other but there still in communication and oh yea he tries to tell me the old line "well she's not attractive" and "no way she's like 46 that's way too old for me." so i really dont know how to handle this If i ask if he's still talking to her he tells me no and I have done my best to take his word - but i heard him getting a voice mail and i can hear thru his phone and it was her voice. :'(
i see'no1 comented after 4 yrs. i hope everything worked out 4 the best. i hope u didnt get back with him, b/c like they always say 'once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater' i hope u got help prior 2 this post. god bless and hope ur decisiom worked out well.