My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 years. We are in our lower 20's and we love each other very much. I am worried that my boyfriend may be flirting with other girls and may even like them a little or think they are "cute." I am also worried that this may carry on and he may cheat on me in the future. My boyfriend always jokes around with other girls and make them laugh, but he has never done anything to me before to lose my trust or cheated on me. He touches other girls, but not in a sexual way. For example, this girl is laying on a hammock and my boyfriend comes over and jokingly wraps the hammock around her (not dangerously) and they both are just laughing. I know I am really jealous when he jokes around with other girls and makes them laugh. I want to know if this is normal for guys to do or is my boyfriend flirting with other girls? Is it okay for my boyfriend be like this around other girls?
I have talked with my boyfriend about this issue and he said that he is not flirting, or trying to flirt, with them. He said this is just how he normally acts.
FYI: I may feel this way because I am jealous and over thinking it and/or because my father had kissed another women while he is still married to my mom and this may have an affect on me to feel afraid that my boyfriend will later on cheat on me.
Thanks so much for your advice!
I have talked with my boyfriend about this issue and he said that he is not flirting, or trying to flirt, with them. He said this is just how he normally acts.
FYI: I may feel this way because I am jealous and over thinking it and/or because my father had kissed another women while he is still married to my mom and this may have an affect on me to feel afraid that my boyfriend will later on cheat on me.
Thanks so much for your advice!
Ha that is kind of funny, probably he is not interested in you. Or you don't show him enough attention. Mainly because you have not had sex with him, and he is tired of waiting and wants to go out there and get him sum.
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Don't listen to wicker but if u love him and u don't want to lose him then have sex with him or just tell him if he doesnt like u I'm 12 I had a girlfriend but I never got to see much because we lived in different town lpnd some guys do that to get ur attention and some just act like that but just tell him how u feel .
i know exactly how u feel and the same happens with me.
its not all about sex
u dont need to have sex with someone for makinh them urs .
its just that maybe hes not interested in you or is just attracted towards other girls..just tell him u r not comfortable with it and if hes truly in love with u he'll stop doing that...my boyfriend did. and if he doesnt u also make him jealous and then if he says somethng u say that thats exactly how i feel he'll surely understand.:L
hope this helps:)
Hi dear,
same kind of problem is with me. my boy friend really loves me , that im sure about. but he says he never talks to his ex girlfriend but i hacked his ex girlfriend's mother's facebook account just to check my boyfriend and he accepted it. and he thought that it was his ex girlfriend and he messaged him "so its you"
:/
and that girl also comments on his pictures n stuff :/
IM HELL JEALOUSED OF HER!
hi :) You know what? Its normal with most of the guys.but its just we girls who react and are jealoused of. His ex girlfriend messages him. But he never reply back or answer her call. I still get jealous. Its just the nature. and if you still think that he might be with some other girl later or something such then dont just leave him and do whatever he wants. get physical too.