I'm 13, and i am pretty sure i havent hit puberty. Im 4"9, 87 pounds and we went to doctor to see why i'm so short and doctor said i Didnt hit puberty...
That was 2 years ago. Have i "hit it" now?
Heres the details i can provide:
So i have a few pubic hairs, hair on my testicles (not loads but not little).
Penis hasnt grown, balls disnt drop ..
No voice cracks and still high voice
Minimal armpit hairs
No chest hairs, just very small line of hair between my left and right ribcage.
Good amount of leg hair which stops at knee cap
Arms have good hair
Little facial hair
Barely anyone can see anything cuz its all blonde.
People bully me often, calling me names like little mouse, squaker boy, nathan puberty, gay boy, midget.... Can i speed up puberty so i dont have to deal with them???? Please help!
Hey there guest.....first off let me say I'm sorry to hear about ur bullying. Have u told anyone
Sorry I hit the send button lol.... have u told anyone about the bullying yet....as for puberty.. unfortunatly u r kinda stuck with the speed God/genetics gave u....there is groowth hormones that doctors sometimes use to jumpstart puberty but only in special cases you have started puberty but are in the early stages. Everyone developes at their own rate... I know how u feel. I had a high voice my freshman year and didn't get any armpit hair till I was a junior!!!!!!now that I'm 23 everything has caught up and I'm fine.... u will be too. I hope this helps... if you have any more questions or just want to talk about things like the bullying at school I'm here to listen and help as best I can....
Yeah uhh what should i do to make the bullies stop? Because when i go to bed at night i am very stressed out and cry sometimes even because the bullies make fun of me on fb, youtube, text messages, and in person. Then i come home to a mom who gets very angry at just me very often and then my dad comes jome and puts her down and they both get mad at me. I am the oldest in my family with a 11 year old brother and a 8 year old sister. They all like bugging me and my brother has made fun of me not hitting puberty before. He hasnt hit it either but its still just like the bullies. Im in grade 8 at junior high (middle year ) it goes gr 7 - 9.
The grade 9s make fun of me.
So what should/can i do to stop this stress and breakimg down and crying so often???
Also my teachers dont like me and yell at me and just yesterday my science teacther yelled so every class in the wing could hear that i was "sucking on his calculator" when it was no where near my mouth!!!
Please help!!!
Hey there I got ur response and I'm verry sorrry for all that you have to go through.... know that you are not alone in dealing with all this and kids around the world get bullied for the same things u are. I will have more to type and more advice for you later tonight but I'm on my way to a meeting right now and am on my phone...... I don't know where you are from but I am from the US and live in the. CST time zone. I will post a more detailed reply sometime around 11:30PM if you want to check back then.... once again I'm very sorry to hear all this.
You can't make it go faster. It will take a while, but it will be alright.
The doctor visit was 1 year ago, not 2 so thats a correction. Thanks mike and bio hope to hear from you more because this is the only was i can talk about my problems freely.
Hey again..... so have you told teachers or your parents about the bulling? Its important that a trusted adult be notified.... as for the fb posts. That is very common form of harrassment and can be vey hurtful. The best thing to do there is to delete and block the people who are bullying you on there. As for your parents getting mad at u. I compleatly understand where you are coming from. My dad was always yelling at me and it felt like he blamed me for everything because I was the oldest. I have two younger brothers.....it can be hard to deal with. The important thing is that you talk to someone. Have you ever had thoughts of hurting yourself or others? Don't worry were here for you bud.
Squieker not squaker.
Bio, i have told my parents about some parts of it but others i have not. I got hit by a car 2 weeks ago and 4 months earlier cut foot, 3 months before that broke fingers, then 5 months before it all stabbed by a corkskrew. I've not needed to hurt myself for nature does that to me often. Also i ran away from home once and was forced by a knife to steal and get caught on purpose. I have been beaten up many times with bruises left. I have thought about suicide in some of my worser moments but luckly never really did anything except bang head against wall. I asked my parents multiple times to get a pschiologist or pschytrist (not sure difference). I begged them but they said i didnt need it... And i probably would harm myself soon with out anyone to talk to .. I dont know, i just, like, feel like i have a big sign on me that says Jackass because even my best friends bug me. Not little teases like normal guy friends do but if i say something and they disagree ir dont like it, they start bringing up embarassing moments i had or call me names like naythanyal (in a girly voice) or gay or fruitcake... I just dont know. And sometimes i think about bullying people lower then me on the totem pole or whatever you call it but now ive stopped. I learned what its like for them and dont harm anyone else physically or verbally to make me feel better. So i pretty much conceal everything until i blow up.
Hey again I just had a huge reply but accidently deleted it...arg....lol....good for u for not bullying others. U know how much it hurts so why would u want to make others feel that way....are you physically ok? It sounds pretty bad that u got hit by a car and get beat up. Have u tried telling your friends that when they tease u that its not funny and it really hurtts? Sometimes kids just don't know....I'm really sorry u are going through all of this.... I know how hard not developing very fast can be. My voice was high when I was a freshman (grade 9) and I played the voice of a 10 year old boy in a play!!!!! Also peers on my soccer team made fun of me because freshman had more armpit hair than I did and I was a juniour (grade 11) I also felt embarrassed in the locker room because I felt like everyone had a bigger penis than I had. As for ur parents. Sometimes they will say things like u don't need help because they want to pretend like nothings wrong and that there kid is perfect.... that's not right but sometimes is what happens.... I hope I'm helping a little.... the only things I cand do now is talk and listen because I'm sure I live a really long ways away from you..... but I am trying to help....
Yeah i live in Canada... And yeah i tell them and they call me a fruit or laugh.. I have some friends who dont bug me and say stuff they know will hurt my feeleings but they are just school friends.. The worst part is the only thing i do thet helps me take my mind off things is video games.. I just kinda mess around and stuff but people think i am a gamer so they bug me about that. Its like i cant win..
Hey again..... I would not let the kids that call u a gamer bother you. If that's what you have to do to cope with the stress of life than that's totally ok... and as long as you don't think your a gamer than that's all that matters.... I would say as long as you can talk on here and play video games that's pretty good for now....
Yeah um they just call me out in the halls and the bus.. Seems like after 8 months of bullying me they are finally finding something else to do. Tension at home isnt too bad because we finished a bunch of well needed tasks. Thes last few days have been working out quite well, hopefully it lasts? I will let u know bio
I really appreciate your feedback...... most bullies will eventually stop if you ignore them.... they bully people for their reaction if they dont get a bunch of reactions back from a person they will loose interest and move on...... i thin you will be fine just hang in there.
im glad that things seem to be improving slightly......
Biomajor10
Everything turned bad quickly. Not school, but home. Huge fights, lots of anger. Im very worried.