i lost my virginity a week ago with my bf who was also a virgin. we used a condom of course. i had a bit of bleeding and pain, which from what i've read is totally normal. however just 2 days ago i found a pimple-like thing on the lip of my vagina. it's not really red, and there is no white head on it either. it's not itchy, but it is a bit sore and feels just like a pimple you would get on your face. neither my bf or i have ever had a different sexual partner and therefore could not possibly have herpes.

although, is it possible to get genital herpes from someone who is a virgin also? he had never had sex before having it with me.

i am very active, i'm a long distance runner who trains everyday. could sweat, heat and rubbing underwear possibly cause this??

please please please i need answers :-(