Can anyone help?! I am freaking out...I have four kids, three of which were literally back to back. I had tubal ligation done in april where they cut, tied and cauterized them, so I thought that it was completely impossible. However after reading all of these horror stories I see that it is completely possible. My husband keeps telling me to get a test but I'm putting it off because I'm scared to know. I cannot have another baby nor do I desire to...but I don't know if I could/would terminate either, which is why I am putting off taking a test. I don't want to have to make a decision like that. Number five just sounds insane to me...
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Hi, I'm 33 and a mother of 4 (3 boys and 1 girl), I had my tubes tied almost 6 years ago. My youngest son is 6 and I had such a hard time with my pregnancy with him, that I decided that he was to be my last. My children's father and I were together for 13 years before he pasted 18 months ago. I just started a new relationship 4 months ago and have been sexually active. I'm having irregular periods lasting anywhere between 2-6 days. In the past my periods have been regular and normal. I have been experiencing nausea, tender breast, light cramping in between cycles, extreme fatigue, cravings and my belly is getting bigger. Some of the symptoms I have had with my previous pregnancies and some are new. I'm not interested in anymore kids and neither is he. We took a hpt and the results were negative but according to some of these post the test aren't always right. If the tests aren't right how can I know for sure that I'm not carrying my 5th child? Any advice is accepted.
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I had my tubs tied 2yrs ago and now i wont a baby . i got this new thing call the eesure i need help with what to do or where to go help me some one
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I am 26 and the mother of three wonderful children. I have remarried since my tubal in august '06. We have disscussed having another baby when we could afford having a tubal reversal. (It would take a while to afford) My last period was in early october. I am about two weeks late. Being late has never been strange before but since about 8 months after my tubal I have had regukar periods. When I had the tubal done I bled for 7 months straight. I know this sound almost unbelievable but for me it was the harsh reality. My doc said it would take 9-12 months for my body to adjust from the tubal and bleeding like I was, was not that uncommon. It eventually went away and I have been pretty regular since until now. I don't want to hold out hope of being pregnant and don't want to buy a test to see a negative. I thought I would just give it some time to see if anything symptom wise became more prominant. Did anyone have the after tuabl symptoms that I did?
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I am 30 year old mother of 4 ages 12,9 7 & 6 I had my tubal done during my c-section with my 4th childin 2001. I am now 13 days late and am wondering if i could be pregnant. I have been having regular periods for 6 months now. I do have some symptoms, lightheadiness, tired, increased hunger. What are the chances. I took a HPT and it was negative, but that hapened with my 2nd child as well and i didn't know i was PG un til 13 weeks along. I should also mention I am very fertile and always drop multiple eggs. I don't have time to get to a dr. but after reading some posts it seems the hpt aren't really accurate. Any advice?
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I am 26 mother of 3 ages 6,5 and 3. I had a tubal done march 2005. I also am 13 days late and took hpt this morning it was negative. I was told that a blood test and ultrasound had to be done in order to see if an ectopic pregnancy was possibly causing a neg result in hpt. i guess the best thing to do is to see a obgyn a.s.a.p!!!!! wish me luck ! :-D
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I'm reading this 12/08, and everyone talks about thinking they're pregnant, but nobody writes back to say if they were. I had a tubal 7 years ago, and I started on progesterone hormone therapy a month and a half ago. I hope my symptoms are because of the higher levels of progesterone, as my family is dependent on my paycheck. So did any of you find out you actually were pregnant?
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i know this can be a very scary time for you thinking about the physical, emotional, and financial impact a 5th child can have on your life and the life of your family. You did the responsible thing to get your tubes tied b/c you knew you didn't want any more children so i can only imagine your frustration. everyone has the right here in america to make your own decisions and i respect that, but i would just like to plead with you, that if there is in in fact a life growing inside you right now, to please consider other options before terminating it. as i'm sure you love each one of your children and couldn't imagine your life without any one of them... once that lil one gets there you will have the same love. And if there truly is no more room in your family and in your current situation... think of the greatest gift you could give to a couple who can't have children. You're giving your child life and a nice couple the gift of the deepest love you could ever have in life. I was terrified when i was going to have my second child as a single mom. their father was abusive, and unstable... i was a fulltime student with no financial help from family...etc... to terminate certainly crossed my mind... but the more i get to know that lil boy of mine i would give my own life before i let somebody take his and as a mother we can all relate to that. At four years old he's the funniest, sweetest, most tender hearted and intelligent lil gentleman i know. i can't wait to see what he does with his life and i feel so blessed to be a part of it;) God bless all you mothers and mothers to be. a child is the greatest gift of purity,love and inocense in a darkened world. to be a mother- wow;)
"My God will supply all my needs thru His riches and glory, Amen"
"My God will supply all my needs thru His riches and glory, Amen"
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I am in the same boat I had my tubes tied back in March and it feels like I am pregnant I have most of all symptoms, but only one thing that I am not certain..I had my menstrual on time in nov. it lasted 4 days and light then 9-10 days later I thought it came again b/c it was heavyand lasted 4 days as well then suddenly stops..So I am not sure it looks like i had gained weight and look it but i took a test of course during the day which was negatve...Can anyone help me? my email is _[removed]_ if you have any suggestions I made a doctor appt. the earliest I can make it in Jan.
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I am 36 years old had a tubal ligation done almost five eyars ago after mty youngest was born. I have four kids 10, 7,6 & 4. I am experiencing some pregnancy symptoms but not all. I have taken some home pg tests all have come back negative. My last period was the beginning of October. I keep wondering. I am going to schedule a doctors appointment. But am worried. Dont' know what to do. We already ahve a large his, mine ours family (22, 20, 19, 18, 17, plus my four) So yeah like we seriously need another child to add to the mix. I am done with diapers but do not doubt this would happen tome. My 7 & 6 year old are 11 months apart I was breastfeeding and on the depo shot, plus it was like just after I got the doctors okay to have sex....So I know things can happen. I am giong to check and see and post back.
I agree there needs to be more post backs then just wondering...
I agree there needs to be more post backs then just wondering...
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I am 47 and have had regular periods. My last visit from AF was 11/23/08. I am very regular but wonder if this is the onset of menopause. I didn't think your period just stopped one day. I am going to call Dr. on Monday and try to get seen. Any advice?
Confused in AZ
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Confused in AZ
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I was wondering if anyone has gotten pregnant five years after having a tubal after a c-section. I was talked into having a c-seaction at 23 and am no really regreating it. I would love to have another baby but insurance doesnt' pay for a reversal so I've been praying and doing a lot of reading on the subject. I had my period but it wasn't as heavy this month but now i'm feeling crampy like my period could start again, I'm nasouse (haven't thrown up yet but man it feels like I could any time now) I'm very tired could I be pregnant???
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I just wanted to know if you went to the doctor and are you pregnant? I am 37 and I have had 6 pregnancies, 2 of which I miscarried. I have 18,15,9 and 5 yr olds. My current husband has a 19 and 16 yr old. We only have the 5 yr old in common. I had my tubal 3 months after he was born, going on 5 yrs this month. I only get my period like twice a yr since I had my tubal. We are in the military so my husband is deployed a lot. When he comes home and we have sex is when I get my period. I have not had a period in 11 months. I am feeling tired, my breasts were sore for about a week, I have been nauseous off and on for 3 weeks. I have not been eating that much and have been trying to lose weight. I cut out soda and sugar but in the last month and a half I have gained 11 pounds. I would so welcome another baby but health wise my body can not do it. I have not taken a hpt yet but it seems from reading here it would be a waste of money. I have a yearly checkup next Friday so I think I am going to wait and talk to my doctor.
The only thing I am worried about is an ectopic pregnancy. I am just getting over having appendicitis and having them removed. I just don't know what to do.
The only thing I am worried about is an ectopic pregnancy. I am just getting over having appendicitis and having them removed. I just don't know what to do.
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I just turned 40. I had my tubes clamped in 1995 after the birth of my twin boys - now 14. I have always had regular periods and they have come on like clock work until now. I am 13 days late and feeling funky. I took a hpt and it came back neg. I am never late and I started getting heartburn like the last time I was preg. I haven't seen any responses on this post as to how many have actually been preg. after having the tubes tied. Is it really possible or am I going thru menopause? o.O
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I had my tubes clamped in 2006 at the age of 23. Fast forward I am late and don't know what to think...
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