If it didn't happen at a fertile time you wouldn't get pregnant. But you have given no cycle information to determine that, and your description of exactly what happened is rather lacking in detail.
It also happened to me like I got fingered after I blowjob him. We waited for some seconds and I wiped his hands with tissue. We are both not sure if he even touched his penis with the hand he used to finger me.
He did not insert the fingers because it's my 3rd day of menstruation.. Like, small flow already. He just touched my clit and vagina which has no blood but wetness.
But I am still worried, it's our first time to do it that there is actually cum that came out.
Please answer me. Thanks.
Hi Irish
In order to get pregnant, two things are necessary. [1] Sperm has to enter your vagina and [2] it has to happen at a fertile time.
So the first thing is to find out whether it happened at a likely fertile time. So we need some menstrual cycle data. Unless you have irregular periods and/or you have a short cycle, then Cycle Day 3 (CD3) is not likely to have been a fertile day (CD1=1st day your period starts).
- What were the start dates of your last 6 periods (or as many as you know)?
- What date do you expect your next period to start?
- How did you calculate that date?
- Are your periods regular?
- What do you reckon to be your cycle length (typically 28 days)?
Regarding the possibility of sperm entering your vagina, if there were sperm on his fingers, then your wetness (from your arousal) could have assisted sperm swimming into your vagina (which you say he touched). It is likely that just touching your clit would not have been a risk (if your clit is quite small, and he had very little sperm on his hand).
Presumably, he ejaculated into your mouth, and the likelihood is that you would have cleared most sperm from his penis. You also wiped his hands with tissue, which probably would have cleaned any sperm that might have been on them. But what made you wipe his hands?
I hope this helps. I have had to assume exactly what happened, but I hope this helps as a start.
To answer you,
1. I don't remember my last 6 start of periods but I do remember that I didn't get my period on June which I don't know why, and then I had it on July 13 to 17 and then July 17 to 22.
2. Expecting my next period around third week of September 18-22.
3. Patterns, I guess. There were times before that I got my period same day as last month, and sometimes two days additional from last month (ex. I had it on 17th last month, this month i got it on 19th) but it's changing and not accurate due to stress and late sleep.
4. I can say that I am regular but there are one or two months every year that I don't get my period but at different times, not consecutively.
5. I'm not sure with that... 30-32 days?
Just to add info, I am not a heavy flower so that time, around day 3 of period I already have small flow. He never inserted his penis on me. We just do mutual masturbation every now and then without him cumming. It is just the first time that I made him cum myself.
I wiped his hand with a tissue because he quite adjusted his penis after I did it to him. And then he touched me after 1-2 minutes. Just touched my clit and near opening for around 30 sec to 1 minute...But as he says, and as far as what I remember is correct, he did not insert his fingers since I don't want to since I have my mens.
This happened August 19.
Thank you, Shepherd999. I would like to go to doctor myself but I am afraid that my parents would knew about this. :(
With the clarification that #1 should show August 17-22 (although you said in #3 you got it on 19th!), then activity on 19th was not likely to have been on a fertile day. So I would not think it likely that you could get pregnant.
His fingers would not have necessarily needed to be inserted for any sperm to enter your vagina, as your wetness might have been enough to allow any sperm to swim in. Does your activity usually include fingering? Be careful if you want to retain an intact hymen.
You seem concerned about your parents not knowing. Are there cultural or religious implications for you? Where are you from? How old are you?
I don't think you need to go to the doctor, but it is not unusual for girls to have regular check-ups with their doctor, who should maintain confidentiality.
I hope this helps a bit more. If you want to discuss this in more detail, please feel free (privately if necessary) and I will try to help, or explain more if required.
Yes, it really is August 17-22. The enclosed parentheses I put in number is just an example. Sorry for the confusion.