im 18 and have never cum. with my previous bf, whenever i got close to cumming i felt like i was going to wee, so i stopped myself and held myself back. even if i have been to the toielt before sex the feeling would still arise.
now with my current bf, who i feel much more comfortable with, even if i let myself totally go, i still cant cum. its getting very frustrating, i think sub consciously i am worried i am going to wee.
so is it possible to wee at that point or not?
help please..... thanks
now with my current bf, who i feel much more comfortable with, even if i let myself totally go, i still cant cum. its getting very frustrating, i think sub consciously i am worried i am going to wee.
so is it possible to wee at that point or not?
help please..... thanks
It should never be possible to pee during sex. The body should be able to differentiate between when it needs to pee and when it needs to ejaculate. There's a "flap" inside the penis that closes the urethra during sex. I think you can relax and be able to ejaculate just fine. If you do see that you've peed during sex, see a doctor. However, this should not occur.
It's not possible to pee during sex, that part of your system sort of "shuts off" like said above.
That sensation is pretty normal though. I would just keep going, but perhaps switch up positions.
That sensation is pretty normal though. I would just keep going, but perhaps switch up positions.
I thought I was urinating while having sex, but found out that I was just "gushing" before having an intense orgasm. It smells a little like urine, but it's not. Don't hesitate or stop when you are feeling this. It feels amazing!! My husband gets so turned on when I gush. It's kiind of messy, but so worth it! Look up "gushing" on the internet. I think this might be what you are experiencing.