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Can't masterbate - Never feel pleasure. What's wrong with me

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Kate Smith answered this How to Masturbate for Beginners: Safe Masturbation Techniques for Teenage Girls and Boys
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Guest

Hello, I’m 15 as well and for the last 2 years I’ve had the same experiences. I’m uncircumcised, but I don’t think that is vital for successful masturbation. Anyways, like you, I experience many wet dreams with pre-ejaculate and have parents who are open and supportive of masturbation. I always tried masturbating dry or with limited amount of lube, but never felt anything at all except discomfort. I thought there was something wrong with me like I had a low sex drive, which didn’t make since given that I had around 40 erections a day, no joke. The solution that I recently found, is simply using excessive amount of lube. I personally use a Eucerin lotion that won’t irritate the skin. I also find it helpful to put water on your penis prior to applying lotion. Make sure that you do it when you are sexual arroused. Once you have been stroking your shaft for a while and can feel increasing pleasure, I usually put another handful of lotion on. Although this can be extremely messy, I say it’s well worth it. Another to try is changing the position of your body. If you’re used to doing it while you’re standing up, try lying down on your back. This really helped me. This is getting kind of long, but I personally find that increasing the speed at which you go up and down can help you ejaculate. Once you get used to the process, you can slow down and make it last longer. These are just the things that I found helpful, but I would suggest experimenting with the amount of lube, speed, and so forth. I hope this helped in anyway, and just don’t give up trying.
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Guest

HUMP THE DAMN BED. I had and have issues masturbating the "regular" way. i dont feel anyything. i then read about changing a tehnique and i tried humping the bed. It helped a LOT. i feel so much better and its so easy
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Guest

what is it called whe you use tits to masterbate a penis
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Guest

bambi27109793 you sound very sweet and so caring. I'm having a lot of issues understanding and exploring myself. i wish that i had someone like you who is understanding and knowledgeable like you to help walk me through the process. You're so nurturing and sweet I'm sure that you would have no problem helping me to find my release. Please, i would like nothing more than to learn from you and to have you show me and help me understand my body and my sexuality. I could really use your words and experience.
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obscure seaplane

Hey there guest if you make a profile we at steady health will have an easier time helping you with your concerns. It would also allow you to message specific users such as Bambie. Just a suggestion.... we are all here you help you the best we can.
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subscribed mark

I think Bambi has been gone nearly 10 years.

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Guest

Wow really ? Oh that’s right I was thinking of Blank canvas......
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Guest

Hey I'm 15 I have the same issue what works for me is humping a pillow other than that I can't use my hands I don't know why
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Guest

Hey guest are you a guy or a girl? How long have you been humping your pillow for and what techniques have you tried with your hands ?
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Guest

I don't know any of you guys and only you can answer this, but for any of the people looking at this is it possible you're asexual or on the Asexual spectrum. Asexuality is someone who experiences little to no sexual attraction. The few Asexual people I have met have mentioned feeling like they were broken before just understanding thy they were different.

Asexuality isn't finite and is different for everyone. It may look like being grossed by the act if sex, being unable to find your self sexually stimulated, or being generally disinterested in sex. (it's different for everyone). One other common lable on the asexual spectrum is demisexual. Demisexual is experiencing little to no sexual attraction without an emotional connection formed first. One way this can look is seeing strangers doing only turns you on a little, but thinking about someone you have a crush on turns you on a lot. Another is normal porn not turning you on, but a sex scene with a character you're invested in does. (but it's different for everyone)

There are also corresponding demiromantic and aromatic for the romantic relationship counterparts. Aromantic being that you feel little to know romantic connection. This could look like having little to no interest in dating or finding showings of love such giving flowers to be trubbles some. (however this is different for everyone). Demiromantic being you feel little to no romantic connection before the connection of an emotional relationship. Demi romantic may look like always having crushes on your friends or not understanding the appeal to dating someone you hardly know. (it's diffrent for everyone )

Aromatic and asexual DO NOT HAVE to go together. You can be one without the other. You can love an s.o. and have no interest in sex. Or you can have no interest in a relationship but love sex.

If you think any of this applies to you I encourage you look more into it and remember there is nothing wrong with you.

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Guest

I'm 15 and ejaculated with pleasure while pillow f*****g when i masterbate other wise it feels very weird?
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Guest

Hey guest, it usually isn’t a problem to hump your pillow as long as your penis is pointing up towards your bellybutton and not down towards your feet
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modest situation

I'm 16, male and recently lost my virginity. I've never fealt please masturbating untill I was about to cum. Even during my sex i didn't feel much pleasure but did get hard (not a problem for me). When i was young my foreskin was stuck to the tip of my penis and I never knew I could pull it back. After finding this out I started peeling it bit by bit and now, I've had it fully peeled off for about 4 years. Masturbating hasn't been a problem for me, I've just not felt pleasure untill nearing ejaculation. This is not normal is it?
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Guest

I have the same problem i'm 15 and only able to cum in wet dreams.
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Guest

Hi, I'm 15, i can masterbate and cum, however i cant do it with my penis upright, i only can cum when i am lying face on my bed with my penis pointed down, perhaps this is cause i have done it this way since i was 5 or 6, i would rub my penis against the floor, not sure is this is a problem as i wont feel pleasure when having sex with a girl as your penis is straight or upright when having sex.
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