i'm 20 yrs old male & i watch gay porn while i masturbate i mostly like a guy jacking off or giving a blowjob or nude pics of male celebrities & i'm turned on it by i watch straight & lesbian porn too but i'm more turned on by gay porn..but the idea of getting physical with another guy is revolting to me & i've never been sexually attracted to another guy or even fantasized about one it all started as curiosity during puberty when my body was changing & i wanted to know if other guys go through the same changes but i've always been attracted to girls all i think of when i see is good looking guy is that why i can't i be as good looking as him & i am more comfortable around a group of girls than a group of guys expect when the girls start havin girl talks about guys & stuff. when i'm with my guy friends i love talking about girls but i'm unable to use profanity & obscene words plus i'm very shy & don't talk much & i'm very bad at sports except swimming but i'm really good at acting dance art & music so they think i'm a sissy & gay do you guys think i'm gay or straight plz help me i'm very confused.
I think, heck, I know you're straight.
You say you're good at swimming, there is nothing wrong with that. It is an Olympic sport. So what if you don't use inappropriate language.
I think a lot of guys look at gay porn but just won't admit it. I think there is a bit of a curiosity factor in it. Does that mean your gay, no. It means your curious.
I don't know where you live but I think a lot of these misconceptions arise from the puritanical laws in the US in particular. Other countries have no issues with nudity. Here we keep it hidden and dirty so how do you know if you're normal? Curiosity is normal.
You say you're good at swimming, there is nothing wrong with that. It is an Olympic sport. So what if you don't use inappropriate language.
I think a lot of guys look at gay porn but just won't admit it. I think there is a bit of a curiosity factor in it. Does that mean your gay, no. It means your curious.
I don't know where you live but I think a lot of these misconceptions arise from the puritanical laws in the US in particular. Other countries have no issues with nudity. Here we keep it hidden and dirty so how do you know if you're normal? Curiosity is normal.
some guys (including myself) watch gay porn to observe other guys physical appearance and changes. I have since been in a (straight) sexual relationship, so i conclude that watching gay porn doesn't mean you are gay.
If you enjoy watching two men getting it on, then that is step 1 of becoming gay. Step 2 is when you'll finally come out of the closet years after some deep self reflection. There is a possibility of being bi-sexual, but if you start to think that girls and their parts are gross or not a turn-on, then that would be gay.
I'm gonna let you in on a little secret most of thos guys you watch are strait honestly i watch gay porn all the time and frankly its because i like the noise and the edgeyness of it all. I"m a big actor and singer too and not using profanity just means you have self control by the way I"m strait too I've been with the same girl for 5 years and honestly she likes porn too! so now we watch it together the and really the true point of pornography at first wasnt to turn people on it was art to show the human body honestly only u can decide your sexuality and honestly porn shouldn't be one of those contributing factors to your descison
might mean your bi-curious...most guys lean more to either beng straight, or being gay
Doesn't sound like you are gay, maybe you are bi? There is nothing wrong with either btw
Yea If you get off watching it your def bi. Your only gay if you actually have sex. But that's just my opinion.
I just don't know if you are gay or not, sincerely y consider myself straight, but around a year ago i began watching gay porn, at the beginning it was gross, but the second time i got into a gay porn site i was masturbating, and the porn i watched was just not as good as i liked, and i decided to "turn me on" with gay porn.
now i watch gay porn one every 6 or 7 masturbation sessions (once 2 or 3 weeks), just when i believe I need to watch something more dirty, at the beginning i became homophobic, actually i couldn't look at guys that seem gay, or that looked like the guys in the that movies i watched, every time i masturbated i reached a point that i wanted to watch gay porn, after ejaculate everything felt weird, and the gay movie didn't excited me anymore (watching girls makes me continue masturbating sometimes).
i believe we are not gay, because i never liked guys, and actually i don't mind have sex with a guy or have a relationship, I've meet some gay guys, and all of them are (i don't know if they are trolling or are actually) very turned on, some of them have tried to "invite me" to have sex with them and i'd never been bi-curios.
as I said before, at the beginning it scared me a lot, even i began to keep physical distance with my friends (specially a friend that always salute everyone, included me, with a kiss at the cheek... thing that is common at my country, just a expression of trust for some guys), i mean i always hugged every friend and kissed at the cheek some that i trusted enough. it lasted until at my university a group of political activist began a campaign pro-homo and against homophobia, then i made public my homophobia, i began a crusade against them (surprisingly i got a lot of support, that showed me that i could argument about homophobia like they did with pro-homo), but then one day i was masturbating and fell down into gay porn again. everything about the pro/against-gay conflict was forgotten as suddenly as it appeared (almost at my university)
After many months of meditation, and went out and meet some girls, and some guys that seem to be gay (i supposed), I've realized i don't like guys, actually girls turn me on in a physical/animal way, by now i don't get excited by watching guys naked, doing blowjobs or kissing each other (not sure even if I was at some point), sometimes i look up for a gay porn movie to watch just thinking that is more nasty, but i've always felt that i don't like men, and absolutely i'm not gay, i'm not interested to try gay or bi-sex
i keep masturbating frequently sometimes, most of the times just with girls naked or doing themselves or straight movies, thou when i just want to ejaculate fast, i watch gay porn and i just concentrate in ejaculate, even i can't remember the gay scenes.
My advice is that you should think if gay porn is a way to get an erection, to ejaculate, to watch men naked, to watch men feeling pleasure, just watch something nastier or if you imagine yourself drilling men, licking cocks, being nailed, etc.
if you always imagine yourself doing things with other men (when watching gay porn) maybe you should tray bi or gay sex, but if you just seem yourself with your things inside a woman, then you are completely straight.
at my point of view you can put your things inside everyone that allows you to, but always do it if you think you are doing the right thing, sex is for reproducing and have fun, the right way is to be excited with the other sex, but it doesn't exclude any other kind of sexual intercourse, sex just for fun is possible and if it doesn't damage anyone, even better
Hakkuna Mattata, you'll know if you aren't gay, just ask yourself what you want watching gay porn, what you want from girls, or what you want from guys, in my case i can't feel attraction or sexual love to guys, now i'm well, i kiss my friends when i want, and i know it is not a sexual thing, just trust between guys, i can even sleep in the same bed with other guy and nothing happen, not even an erection
sorry for the length, it felt good to share my story, and hope to help
also i'm 22, and now tolerant to homosexuality, but still homophobic
Actually, 1500 different animal species practise homosexuality. Are all of these animals "unnatural" and againsts god's will aswell? If, like you say, god created us all, then that would mean god created us to be gay! People are born homosexual, and do not have the choice to change their sexual orientation.
I find that you're an extremely ignorant human being, and maybe you need to learn how to embrace ALL of gods creations.
By the way, your comment was missing so many definite/indefinite articles, and commas that it was hard to understand.
HAVE A NICE DAY.
I find that you're an extremely ignorant human being, and maybe you need to learn how to embrace ALL of gods creations.
By the way, your comment was missing so many definite/indefinite articles, and commas that it was hard to understand.
HAVE A NICE DAY.
Ive done the same thing. All it is is curiosity:) and hormones! Dont fool yourself dude! You know who you really are, you are JUST CURIOUS.
It is never forsure that u r gay even the dictors couldnt find why these kind of things happen. The psychiatrs works on it but they also donno why these kind of things happen to human. There r some men even they get married but for famtasy they have sex with other guys. There r some answers some solutions i found. These r; u might be gay but u cant even tell it to ur self because the society makes u think that it is something wrong. Why is it wrong why is it something to be shy of who said it! People should know that to u can like who ever u like nobody has right to judge you. You can be bi str8 or gay what ever. Ofcourse still in our days ppl think that this is something wrong and unberrasing. There are so many guys around that u cant even imagine which likes boys, but they cant even tell them to their selves or tge boy which they love even. This releaves it self to unhappiness. The reason they date or have sex with women is that they want to feel comfortable and relax. Like when r with girls and have sex with them they think they are man! Such a silly way to think isnt it.. Anyway this is a veeery deep subject that i can write many pages about it.
My last words are the men which likes boys or even they cant tell them to their selves should be little more relaxed its not the end of the world instead its the begining of ur happiness. Be secret or be open just dont be so pushy to ur selfs and dont let the silly rules the silly brainwashing sill sentences. They brainwash people and make them think the way the society wants, really pice me of.. Anyway we should trust to somebody in this world first to our selfs ofcourse but than yes to somebody, somebody which we choose. Try to things which u like, u dont have to say to society or anybody anything. U have ur own private life. But please accept that to like a guy is not a bad thing instead its a good thing because god created u and u r a part of it this is tge most important thing. The guys which thinks they r str8 but in deep they know they like boys, dont be too pushy to ur selves there might be a guy which u like. Dont push ur self to have sex with girls always, the number of girls which you had sex with wont change ur thoughts will just delay ur feelings. As i said i have many things to write and i really want to write. Maybe i will write down here and we can discuss it maybe u guys have something to say. Here is safe :)
My last words are the men which likes boys or even they cant tell them to their selves should be little more relaxed its not the end of the world instead its the begining of ur happiness. Be secret or be open just dont be so pushy to ur selfs and dont let the silly rules the silly brainwashing sill sentences. They brainwash people and make them think the way the society wants, really pice me of.. Anyway we should trust to somebody in this world first to our selfs ofcourse but than yes to somebody, somebody which we choose. Try to things which u like, u dont have to say to society or anybody anything. U have ur own private life. But please accept that to like a guy is not a bad thing instead its a good thing because god created u and u r a part of it this is tge most important thing. The guys which thinks they r str8 but in deep they know they like boys, dont be too pushy to ur selves there might be a guy which u like. Dont push ur self to have sex with girls always, the number of girls which you had sex with wont change ur thoughts will just delay ur feelings. As i said i have many things to write and i really want to write. Maybe i will write down here and we can discuss it maybe u guys have something to say. Here is safe :)
In Addition, i forgot to write one thing there it is; i said that u r a god creature and uike or love another god creature doesnt matter boy or girl. We are god creatures and we can kije other god human creatures.
No this does not mean you are gay. In no way shape or form does it mean that!! Like BurkeS said it is all just hormones and curiosity.
It all starts by watching to much porn. I was like you i started to watch streight porn maybe when i was 13 yrs old. Around my 18 years of age. I came to the stage of watching gay porn few times a week. Now am 25 and i watch tranny's. So i was starting to feel like am really gay but the thing was i can never look at a guy and judge him how hot he was. Then i gave it a shot more then couple times to be gay but every time i turn soft. either in the middle of it or at begging of it. Couple days ago a overweight girl came. I was trying to get laid. I turned hard through the hole time and stay hard. So i think u might have to be born gay. To answer your question i think you should stop watching porn. After couple weeks bring hot chick and test it out. If you get hard by just kissing her it means your not gay.