Just concentrate on getting those babies as far along as possible! You've don SO WELL and in no time they will be here! So just keep thinking 1 hour, 1 day at a time! RU artistic, you could make pictures for the girls - even if you aren't a great artist it doesn't matter, it is from you! When I was pregnant with boht my boys I wrote a diary to them - what was going on at the time, how I felt, my dreams for them, what I thought they would do, and my promises to them! Write a diary for yourself too! Anythi ng to keep your mind off of this experience, make it into a positive - that this is for the 3 of you!
i was like babe do something for me to watch so he was singing and danceing and he was having fun and omg he can sing so good but then he had to leave for a week sometimes i wish i didnt get pregnant and i miss not having someone in the room at night to just stay up with me and talk i hate having a big bed to myself i hate how there is no sound in the house
I know honey! BUT that's not what it is now right? So you are ALONE ALONE?
yea and anthony is like 7 hours away and im just not feelin good im hurting to bad like the pains not going away at all
HOLY c**p!!!
Ok when you say pain what do you mean? RU experiencing pains - like dull throbbing, pain in your groin, hips, tensing and re;leasing? Did they give you a list of what to watch out for/
Ok when you say pain what do you mean? RU experiencing pains - like dull throbbing, pain in your groin, hips, tensing and re;leasing? Did they give you a list of what to watch out for/
like my hips and like if hasnt gone away and like im getting pain in my upper belly and my lower back i just want to cry cuz of the pain
Hi honey! Call the hospital RIGHT now honey OK? And tell them what's going on and they will page your OB/GYN! I think you could be in premature labour! Do you have any spotting or gel like substance? Honest honey! This is better safe than sorry!
will i did call them and they were like theres nthing to worry about your water didnt break adn that i would know if i was in labr and they were like hes not in he away an im flip ojut bout this he had to go away now of all times
Actuallyu that is NOT true and TOTALLY irresponsible of them to say that you would know! How can you know if you have never had children before EVERY labour and child birth is different! My sister was 10 cm by the time she thought " heh this mild cramping isn't going away, perhaps I should just go and get checked out!" And honey after 2 babies of my own, you just don't care who's down on the other end, it's the nurses that matter! The doc comes in at the last second to say "Ok 1 more push and we will have it!" So don't worry about him being away! And also your waters do NOT have to break to be in labour, some women HAVE to have them broken to bring the labour along! And some break their waters when they bare down! So that was silly of them! So this is what I want you to do! 1st Try and relax and breathe and take your mind off of it! IF it is unbearable or just something you can't deal with I want you to phone the ambulance right away! Have your cell and your bag packed! How far away are your parents? Do you have a birth coach, or midwife or a friend that is going in with you? Get ALL those phone numbers in the cell phone and on a piece of paper so IF needed the hospital and the paramedics can phone them for you! I don't want you to panic though OK? Why did EVERYONE leave you alone on bed rest? where is your sister that you were living with etc. I mean you come from the Waltons with umpteen kids, there HAS to be a sister, brother, sister in law etc available for you!?
Hi honey! How are you doing?
well i decided to go in and they where trying to stop them and they did but now i have to stay in the hospital till they get here im soooo mad i still have pain im just scaried that they will come back and then they willnt be able to stop them and then they we be borned early i dont want them to come to early
I was worried about that! So you are 30 weeks or 31 weeks right? Each hour and day you hold off the better! Is anyone comeing back to be with you? Do you have a coach - family etc. just keep relaxed and try and keep your blood pressure down! The babies health is the big one right now - as is yours of course - so lets take this 1 day at a time OK? BIG HUGS!
im 31 weeks anthoy comes back in 2 days i cant relax i hurt really baad the pain just doesnt stop they keep chacking me but i just hate this
I know honey! BUT there isn't anything you can do except relax and try to get through this! IF the girls are born soon, you are still not too bad as far as dates go! When they did an ultrasound to see how they were, did they estimate how much they weighed?
they think almost 5 pounds or little less then 5 pounds im so tried of just sitting around in the bed i dont even want to be here