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I don't understand Guest! Are you inquiring when she got pregnant?
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i guess but i still have a right to know what they are going to do they are good and so am i hes not aloud to leave his house soo i have not get to see him but he good
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Why isn't he alowed to leave? It's not about them telling you what's going on honey, you are in hospital with a higher risk pregnancy and they don't want to upset you - which can sometimes make you start having contractions again - so IF something is going on, it's good for now that they aren't telling you! Also what can you do honey? You can't change adults minds honey! So just hang in there! I CAN'T believe it is SO close - are you all ready?
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hes on house arrest bc of fines andhe has to leave for a month and i just found all this out and ill i have been doing is cring and he told me not to get mad or upset bc he kows how i am im not ready i cant do this by myself :'(
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You're not by yourself sweetheart! Your family and friends are there! I PROMISE you that when those beautiful girls arrive, everyone will band together - put away their differences - and get with the program! Also ask Anthony if he can put a request forward to have compassionate supervised visitation for you - If he explains that his girlfriend is due with twins, they might just let him come see you = escorted by his mother! And where is going for a month? All the more reason for you to keep those girls in there as long as possible so they can see their dady when they are born! It WILL be OK honey! Just look what you have gone through since January 1st when we discovered that you were pregnant RIGHT? Once you become a mom let me tell you, ALL of these ups and down are NOTHING and you will be stronger than you EVER realized I promise you that!
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he was going to be the only one in the room with me and i hope they do Anthony has to go to boot camp and his po said he would look in to it soo i dont know and im getting calls and i dont know who they are and they are crazing me and worrying me i call my best friend and had her and kaylee come up to help find out who it was
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Here in Canada we have a 3 digit number you call - after gettind a distressing or weird phonecall - then fter 3 reports the company contacts the police! Also IF you don't know who they are you can get your cell phone company to block them! What about your mom being in there - You would have to physically restrain and drug me NOT to be in the delivery room of my grandchild! XD There is one thing I will ALWAYS regret is not allowing my mom to be in the delivery room with me - we had a TERRIBLE relationship, through my teens and 20's _ and she REALLY wanted to be in there, but I couldn't handle it! And now that she has passed away it upsets me thinking that we COULD have bonded during that! So what else is Anthony into honey - you don't go to boot camp for fines - my son just got of jail so I know that much! Be CAREFUL honey, I know you love ea ch other , BUT if it is a serious crime then Social services could get involved to protect the girls so be careful OK?
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well he is paying it tomorrow and he will be a free man and im really happy about that and i dont know the numbers soo and today people call and call all day and i needed up turning of my phone and anthony called it and then call the hospital room bc he thought something happened to me and i dont want her in the room i will not change my mind and he knows what will happen if he gets in anymore trouble soo
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and all day my belly has been hurting and now its hurting more and everyone knows i cant take pain
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When you are saying "hurting" try and describe it! Does it feel like squeezing and tightness, and when it happens put your hand on your stomach, this could be a sign of Braxton Hicks or the real deal! Don't get upset OK? Also I want you to listen to me about something grown up OK?! When I was your age, I grew up in a VERY dysfunctional and VERY violent household! I ALWAYS blamed my mom for my dads drinking and violence! It wasn't until I was a grown up and had a child of my own that I REALLY saw the whole picture! That my dad was a VERY violent drunk, and my mom had just grown to hate him and couldn't stop herself from "pushing his buttons" So I take it from the statment "I don't want her in the room..." That your tone towards your mom is a sign of you not liking her right now! And I have a feeeling that this might be from her and your dad not getting along! Just remember honey there is ALWAYS 3 sides to any story, his, hers and somewhere in the middle and somewhere in the middle is usually the one! So try not to get roped into taking sides with this OK? As sometimes - like in my case - you can get the wrong end of the stick! And a life time regretting taking sides and destroying relationships!

Glad Anthony can get it sorted out and be there with you! Hopefully he has watched some birthing videos!!!!! ;-) My husband was the opposite he swore he couldn't do it and he was TOTALLY fine! But others I've known have actually bragged how easy it will be and WHAM they are out cold on the floor! Tell him to have a snack and drink a lot of water! ;-) Also don't do what my girlfriend did and yelled "TIME OUT! I want to go home! I promise I will come back tommorrow!!!"
;-) XD
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like its tighting and when i getthem the girls are really kicking and my belly feels different and my mom could of did things different and if she would of he would still be with her my dad has his own house and i want to go live with him not her and lamanda and kaylee was here today we was talking and kaylee was like want you going to do if he out cold on the floor bc kaylee had him there for her bc her husband was not there and he hit the floor and i dont need us both in a bed but we are gettting married my dad thinks it a good thingsoo im happy
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Honest honey! You are young and there is MORE to this then just your dad against your mum! I've been married for 22 years and my children don't have a clue of what we are doing or how we feel about each other! BUT if we divorced I am sure they would have similar thoughts and alliances! So DONT cut off your mum Cat, you WILL regret it honey! They are BOTH your parents and they BOTH love you and the girls! So don't do this!

Yeah get Anthony to sit down and alert them to the fact that he is "queazy" ;-) XD

Hold off on the marriage thing for awhile OK? I want you to finish school etc first OK? Don't start making decisions until things are in place! When things are panicky we tend to want to sort EVERYTHING out right away! So be careful!

Sounds either like Braxton Hicks or you might be in the beginning stages of labour! I had this for 4 weeks with both of my boys and was about 2 cm dialted for the entire time!
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hello and i am the guest who was asking about cat last mentstrual period she mention that she had it on Nov the 14 but did she also had it on Dec but not the same as her last mentrual or did she had sex on Dec. Is because I am going thru the same but just want to confirm when was her last menstrual period? My back been killing me.
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right now i dont even wat to talk to my mother and i dont want her in my life withh us getting married he ask me again and i old him i would but we have to get all the plans for the wedding first sooo he is a free man im really happy I told my nurse and it was jjust Braxton Hicks but they are watching my alot more now soo
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To guest! Depending on when you become pregnant you can have what is called "vaginal bleeding" it is just like a period but without the ovulation part! If you give me some more information I can definitely help you figure this out!

1. When was your last REAL period
2. When did you have unprotected sex?
3. Are you periods usually rgular?
4. Did you have a wonky period?
5. Do your breasts, hips, groin hurt as well as your back?
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