Hello everyone,
First off I would like to say that I am 23 years old, married to a man, and I have a child.
Here recently in the past few years I have been developing sexual feelings for women. It first really started with one of my friends. Ever since I met her when we were both 16 I had a little crush on her. But now that we are older my feelings towards her has grown to sexual feelings. At first it was just her, I wasn't attracted to any other woman. Her and I have madeout a few times and came really close to having sex but I turned her down because I didn't want it to ruin our wonderful friendship. Plus we both had been drinking alcohol and I knew we would probably regret it the next day. Anyways, now in the past few months I have found myself becoming attracted to other women. I fantasize about women, and I just have this strong desire to be with a woman. I have never felt an urge this strong in my life. Not only do I want to have sex with a woman, but I sometimes think about being in a relationship with one. It's so hard for me to tell if these feelings are just coming from curiosity or if I truly could be bisexual or lesbian deep down inside...
Now whenever I have sex with my husband I feel disgusted. I literally get sick to my stomach after we get done. I am not if this is because I am not sexually attracted to him anymore, or what... I do still find other men very attractive.
A part of me keeps telling myself that this is just a phase, but then the other half is saying that deep down inside me I know it's not. I am so lost and confused.
I just need some advice, please. If you have something mean to say please keep it to yourself!
Thank you
First off I would like to say that I am 23 years old, married to a man, and I have a child.
Here recently in the past few years I have been developing sexual feelings for women. It first really started with one of my friends. Ever since I met her when we were both 16 I had a little crush on her. But now that we are older my feelings towards her has grown to sexual feelings. At first it was just her, I wasn't attracted to any other woman. Her and I have madeout a few times and came really close to having sex but I turned her down because I didn't want it to ruin our wonderful friendship. Plus we both had been drinking alcohol and I knew we would probably regret it the next day. Anyways, now in the past few months I have found myself becoming attracted to other women. I fantasize about women, and I just have this strong desire to be with a woman. I have never felt an urge this strong in my life. Not only do I want to have sex with a woman, but I sometimes think about being in a relationship with one. It's so hard for me to tell if these feelings are just coming from curiosity or if I truly could be bisexual or lesbian deep down inside...
Now whenever I have sex with my husband I feel disgusted. I literally get sick to my stomach after we get done. I am not if this is because I am not sexually attracted to him anymore, or what... I do still find other men very attractive.
A part of me keeps telling myself that this is just a phase, but then the other half is saying that deep down inside me I know it's not. I am so lost and confused.
I just need some advice, please. If you have something mean to say please keep it to yourself!
Thank you
Hmmm, it seems to me you are biosexual, but your more attrackted to women than men. Even if you are bioxsexual, its nothing to be ashamed of, and ur loved ones and family should except you for what ever you are. I have a boyfriend he told me he was biosexual, and what really surprised him, is that i didn't change my feelings for him. Also i just want to ask, but have u ever had sex with a woman before?? If u havent u might just be curious and if you do have sex with a woman ur urge could wear off.
You sound like you are bisexual but you may just be bucurious. Im more. Attracted to women like you are but still like men! If you and your friend are serious, or curious, have a girls night and find out what your relationship status is. If it isn't right for you then go back to being friends! It will all work out in the end! And remember that your sexuality is nothing to be ashamed of!
Good luck Hun!
sOUND LIKE IT TO ME YOU SEXUAL ATTRACKETED TO HER AN YOU HAD A CRUSH ON HER
See I am 13. And I kinda wanna kiss one of my friends, or even have sex with her, I know I wouldn't get pregnant so what's the big deal?! I just don't know how to tell her or ask her without ruining our friendship... Can someone please help me
Me too I could use some help