And like I have been really hungry lately (Had 20 chicken nuggets for dinner and was still hungry and I get more hungry everyday lmao) And I have growing pains in my right leg... Am I in a growth spurt?
You absolutly could be in a growth spurt. I would measure you height now and then in a few weeks or a couple months if measure again..... And itbis possible that you are ejaculating some. Idk because I can't see what it's like but based on your description you definatly have precum and probably are just barely starting to produce semen. And madturbating quicklybusually doesn't produce much if any precum because precum is produced durring prolonged sexual arousalś. It takes time to produce :)
Thank you for all of your answers =). I won't be on for about a day because I will be in Philly.
Hey I had extra time at home to write this lmao. , I got up this morning and went to the bathroom, and while I was peeing, at first it dripped out (showing there was something sticky in the urine) I masturbated at like 1AM but went to the bathroom 2 hrs later. And then I woke up at 10AM.. Is that normal? And how much longer do you think it will take for me to make actual semen?
didnt work at all with my hottttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt! girl friend
The stickiness is probably pre-ejaculate in your urethra. Did you have an orgasm when you masturbated ? It's difficult to say when you will ejaculate actual semen but probably within the next year
Yes, I had an orgasm. I was laying down in the dark with a blanket over me and I needed a little fun. Again, when I was finishing my entire glans was wet. It dries quickly though.
Did it get all wet before you orgasmed or after?
And what did the fluid look and feel like?
I am pretty sure it was after. It felt really slippery and was hard to clean off. (Dries quick though) It looks like pre-cum but sometimes under my forskin (I have some left since my circumcision failed) there was a few white spots
Someone told me you can ejaculate 1-2 mnths after pre-cum. Is this true? (I would like to know so I don't get my hopes up) I have actully had it for a month today :)
Hi Luca
From your posts Luca it sounds like you are developing just as you should be and are probably much further along in your development than many of your friends and classmates.
It sounds like you get pre cum fairly regularly when you masturbate and you are achieving an orgasm and there is no need to try and hold it back.
Your size is pretty much what is considered average for a boy your age and your friend could have a little bigger one but please remember that as people come in all sizes the same is true about the penis and there are a lot of guys that lie about their size and how far they are along in their development.
Everyone grows and develops at different rates and times and how long the process takes can’t be predicted. You started puberty at 10 and there are many guys much older than you that have no sign of puberty what so ever.
The mood swings and the emotions are also part of puberty and considering the loss of your dad at such a young age the emotions and mood swings are certainly understandable.
It would be tough talking with your mom about this stuff for sure and the loss of your dad is tough at any age my heart goes out to you for having to deal with that so young. If things get to bad please don’t be afraid to ask your mom about maybe seeing a councillor.
The fun boy you talk about that loves to talk about Black Ops II is still in there but at the moment he is focusing on something that is out of his control and really nothing to worry about. Which is easy for me to say but please remember for a boy 12 you are developing very well and it is happening just as it should be and well ahead of many others. The pre cum means you are probably pretty close to being able to ejaculate but just at the moment you have not reached that point in your growth and development that you can ejaculate.
Frequent masturbation is something many boys do and even without ejaculating you can still experience all the pleasures associated with doing it and when your body is ready what you are hoping for will happen.
The things you are going through, the doubts, the curiosity about how you compare to your friends and the feeling that something may be wrong are very common during puberty and most guys have them as well.
But try to take comfort in the fact that for a boy that has been through a lot and has had to deal with such a difficult thing so young you are a pretty strong and courageous boy. There will be times that are pretty rocky and tough and you will continue to find ways to get through them. There will also be times like this that you seem to be able to only focus on what seems to be a bad thing like not being able to ejaculate. This can be part of the emotions and mood swings associated with puberty but it can also be part of dealing with the loss of your dad and grieving.
If I could suggest one thing that may be worth trying is look a little deeper into what you think the problem is. It seems that you are only focused on not being able to ejaculate and find it difficult to get past that one thing and overlook all the positive aspects associated with your growth.
You started puberty at 10 pretty early and well ahead of many boys that age.
You are growing and developing just as you should be.
You don’t need to be at the same point in growth and development as your friends.
You are able to get pre cum a lot of the time.
Your size is normal and good for your age.
You can achieve an orgasm and experience all the pleasures associated with masturbation.
Soon enough what you are hoping for and worrying about will most definitely happen and worrying about when it will happen and stressing yourself out over it won’t change how long it will take.
So enjoy your games and talking about them and try to just focus on the positive things, enjoy all the things being carefree and 12 can offer and hopefully the fun kid you want to be and should be will the one you and your friends see more often and the rest will all take place on its own when your body is ready.
Please remember that if you find that things are getting to you and that you are having a tough time coping with things that there is help available and it is okay to ask for it and accept it.
Thank you for that answer, it makes me feel alot better :-). But what I don't get, is why I suddenly started caring so much. I started masturbating around the same time I hit puberty, and I never cared if I could ejaculate or not. I know exactly what triggered it also. On June 6th, 2014 I stumbled on something that was titled "guys. how old were you when you first ejaculated?" I was reading through like 10 pgs of comments, and after that, is when I started to lose it. And from then to now, it's all I think about.41 days I have been going through this. I wish I could just forget about it and just stop masturbating until I have a wet dream or something,
Hi Luca
The posts would have triggered some doubt and concern for sure because there are probably a lot of the guys that would not take the honest approach like you have.
It makes no sense to lie in a pretty much anonymous post but some guys would say they were able to do it very young and of course they are incredibly large for their age.
There is something online called the Tanner puberty scale for boys and it is a pretty good source for information about growth and development it may help you with some of the concerns you have.
It is hard not to compare yourself to others but believe me you are much further along than many guys your age and older and everything is happening just as it should be.
It is up to you if you stop or not but if you enjoy it you won’t hurt anything it is fun right and one day it will happen it is not necessarily going to be a huge amount or shoot all over the colour will be a little different. But the feeling will be the same as it is now when it happens.
I hope you can let go of this and take comfort in the fact your developing early and all is just as it should be and just enjoy discovering the pleasures associated with growing up, change comes with some frustration and questions it also takes time but I think for you things are good and on track.
You have lots of growth and development ahead of you we can’t change the process and speed it up or change the end result but there can be lots of enjoyment in discovering the new things.
Yeah, I have seen the tanner stage scale, I also did the calculator thing and I scored 2.9 does it go 2.9 then the next is 3.0? And yes, I guess masturbating is fun :-) I like doing it while I am laying in my bed. I just lay there stunned while I hit orgasm :D Wait, doesn't it feel better when you ejaculate then not doing it? I just hope it happens soon because I really can't wait :)