My husband and I have been married 2 1/2 years and I don't mind giving oral sex to him because I know he loves it..but for the past year he has complained that I don't finish when I start giving oral at first he said just the act of doing it he was fine with and ive told him its hard because he takes so long to ejaculate. .so its a trun off for me..im tired of trying and its never enough...were separated and im comfortable with it but if t his dosent change I will file for a divorce. .I think he has a sex addiction..what do I do
First let me say, I am 57 and very happily divorced, so consider the source of my opinion. My belief is that you should NEVER be badgered into doing anything sexually that isn't pleasant or comfortable to you. Sex is for the enjoyment of both people, not one. If oral sex is the only thing that pleases him and it isn't fun for you, then i'd say perhaps you aren't suited for each other. You don't have to make excuses for "not finishing", when you are done, he should find a way to "finish" that pleases you both, otherwise he's a self serving jerk...something in my opinion, nobody needs. Hope this helps.
R