I am 26 years old and still a virgin. I am engaged and getting married soon. Of course I plan to have sex with my husband. Does having sex hurt? Do you bleed afterwards? Please tell me, I am nervous and I want to know.
YES HON IT DO HURT BECAUSE HE HAVES TO POP THE HOLE..N ITS GONNA TAKE TIME BEFORE HE CAN CUZ UR SO TIGHT N WONT BE ABLE TO OPEN RIGHT AWAY BUT YEA UR GONNA BLEED..MAYBE ALOT MAYBE A LITTLE....
Is there a way to avoid the pain?
uhn uhn sweetie..if u want the hymen popped..there is no other way..it may take him at 5-10 minutes to pop it cuz ur hole is so tight...tears may be shed but after he pop it..it will be pleasure..so be strong
I do not know if I should get married or not cause I am a baby when it comes to pain.
Not every woman bleeds her first time, and your hymen might have already gotten popped from other causes. There's no way to tell how much pain you're gonna experience or if you're gonna experience any at all. Try having your husband use lube. It'll make your life a whole lot easier.
I am not married yet. I am just engaged. I am getting married on September 23. I love him and I am also nervous about it. I would like to spend my whole life with him and have a family with him. I fell in love when I first met him 8 years ago.
I think you should definitely talk to him about your concerns. Maybe he is worried too! You two should both be open with eachother.
DEF AGREE WITH RANDOM PERSON
I have told my mother about it privately. We were talking about it because she wanted to tell me about sex because I was getting married. In my culture sex is not dicussed openly. I am Egyptian but I lived in the USA since I was 8 years old and my fiance is American. In fact, girls are not about sex until they are about to get married. This is because parents are afraid that girls will engaged in pre-marital sex. I learned all about it from my friends and school. Here in the USA it is a more open society. I am shy to talk to my fiance about it cause of the way I was raised. But I will try to.
ohh ok hon im gald u explained yaself...but do what u have to do that is comfortable for u
Actually he is the first man I have ever dated and loved. My parents did not even know we were dating when we first started dating because they are old school and it is taboo in our culture. I was engaged when I was 23, because my parents arranged it out of fear that I was never going to marry. But it did not last because I wanted to further my education first and he wanted me to quit my job and stay home after we had kids. I was not even attracted to him and we never touched eachother. However, my fiance that I have now is ok with me working even after we have kids and my mom comming to take care of them. I am very attracted to him both physically and mentally. We are both on the same level.
OH OK DATS GOOD...IF YALL BOTH ATTRACED TO EACH OTHER MENTALLY N PHYSICALLY U SHUDNT HAVE NO PROBLEM DISCUSSING UR PROBLEM AS FAR AS DA SEXUAL INTERCOURSE WHEN U FIND DA TIME TO
& HON IT IS NOT A BAD THING TO LOSE YA VIRGINITY AT UR AGE..I KNOW ALOT OF MEN N WOMEN WHO HAVE LOST THEIR VIRGINITY AT UR AGE..BUT UNMARRIED..SO U GETTIN MARRIED N GOIN TO LOSE IT..IS WONDERFUL...!! IM 18 N HAVE LOST MAH VIRGINITY N SUMTIMES I WISH I CAN TAKE IT BACK..BUT HEY EVRYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON
I wanted to wait till I was married because it would bring alot of shame in my family. I come from a very strict Christian family and was raised that you are supposed to wait till marriage. In fact, eventhough I had male friends, my fiance was the only man I have ever dated in my life.