ive been masturbating with an electric toothbrush since i was 15. im now 18 and i have a sexual relationship with my girlfriend. while my gf has like NO problem orgasming by massaging her clit with her fingers, i cant do anything at all without the toothbrush. its really problematic because she feels as if she isnt good in bed when i know its not her!!!! its me :( is there a way i can wean my body off the toothbrush and maybe get it used to the duller finger stimulation??
You just need to retrain your body to react to normal finger or tongue stimulation again, it's something your both going to have be patient with. Have you explained to her why you find it hard to climax?
how do i do that?? retrain my body to react differently i mean? and yes, i have, but it's still kind of a stressful thing since we rarely get time to do whatever we want. we barely get practice.
I take it your female?
I understand it's stressful for you both but it's going to take time but it's something you can do by yourself not just when your together, start by getting rid of the toothbrush to masturbate with and go back to just using your fingers, use your imagination as you do it and imaging it's your gf with you also try reading really erotic stories and masturbating to them.
What you have found is the exact thing I warn others about watching porn to masturbate to as your body loses all ability to react to normal stimulation.