Hello. I am 17 years old and I have recently broke-up with my boyfriend. We swore that we will keep being good friends, and I was ok with that, but now I am not so sure if that is a good idea. I really don't know what to do. Does anybody have experience with these situations? What should I do?
I really don't know what to say. These situations can be minor sometimes, but there is a big possibility that he will attempt to hit on you again. It is hard for him to say that he wants to be just friends, and to really mean it. I had a situation like this myself. I broke up with my boyfriend, a couple of times really. Than we both agreed that it was over, and that we are going to be just friends. And- It didn't work out. Now we are married. And I am happy. But you must ask yourself if you want to be with that guy, and if you don't, you should make a break, and stop seeing him at all for one time. Than you will know for sure.
Well i guess im going through the same thing.. I ve broke up with my ex and we keep getting back to together. I then decided that i couldnt be friends with him... because when i am i always feel theres hope for us to be a couple again. I dont know if i was right in saying this, or did i do this because i was upset at the time. Im not to sure if we should be friends or not. Its difficult right? but im sure when we find someone else we really like, then we probably wont feel the need to be there friend anymore.. Mayb being friends means were still trying to hold on to something thats not there? Im not to sure. Grr.