during sex with my girlfriend i dont feel much throught the condom, even the pleasure max one and i never ejaculate no matter how long we go for, its even the same without the condom and i dont know what to do. i feel sorry for my girlfriend as well as she blames herself.
Cut back on the masturbation if you do it often. Try different paces and true without a condom will feel better but make sure there is some form of birth control in effect.