Me as well, glad you are feeling better though! How long as it been and do you still have negative thoughts?
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Thank you! Same to you! I got off the pill 5 months ago, I've had these thoughts for 4. I am attracted to bf, but the thoughts are still there. Like what if I cheat, what if we don't last, what if we aren't compatible, what if he is boring. Stuff that I wish would go away but at this point I feel as if it apart of me. How about you?
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I feel the same exact way. Little things bother me and I just over think everything now. I can relate with feeling like it's apart of me that will never go away. I have the same fears and it's constant so it really sucks.
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It's weird that the thought of me not loving him the same is on my mind all of the time. I'll leave his house after being with him and the feeling it totally different. I know I love him it's just not the same and I don't know why.
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In my situation I was only on the pill for a short period of time. I started the pill in march and stopped taking it in may because I was so emotional and felt really odd on it. I thought stopping it would make me feel better but I have yet to feel 100%. I think I definitely feel better than I did though. I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 years and I've only felt like this since going on the pill so I think that's definitely the reason. I think the hardest part is realizing it's the pill and not that I actually fell out of love with my boyfriend.
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I know. I've been dating mine for 2.5 years and only experienced this once I stopped the pill
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No, like maybe a month or so after. I know, there have been studies about women not finding their SOs attractive after getting off the pill and making them want more "nurturing" guys because the pill tricks your body to thinking it's pregnant. I try not to believe them because the studies never tell you when they surveyed these woman---right after stopping the pill or in the long run- and they also never tell you whether or not that any of these women have had crazy anxiety over losing feelings.
I've read posts before that women were with their husbandsfor like 20ish years and were on the pill for the same time period. Once they got off the pill they started to experience this and knew something was wrong, so that gives me a lot of hope. How about you?
I've read posts before that women were with their husbandsfor like 20ish years and were on the pill for the same time period. Once they got off the pill they started to experience this and knew something was wrong, so that gives me a lot of hope. How about you?
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I've had a boyfriend for 3 years and only started to take the pill in March and shortly after taking it I stopped. I have never had these feelings before and that's why I believe it is the pill that causes these feelings
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Yeah it definitely is. You have been with him long enough to decide that you don't love him now. It's just a process of waiting to feel better.
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Although it doesn't feel that way, I believe so! Thank you a lot, wishing the best for you. If you ever have any questions or anything I'm sure i can answer them or at least give you some clarity about some things. I think we will both get better but it's going to take some time.
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