I'm 17 and grad is coming up. When I was trying out dresses I noticed that you could clearly see an outline of the bump inbetween my legs leading to the vaginal lips. I don't know what the part is called, but its really bothering me! Is it normally that large? Is something wrong..? I've noticed this for a while and I would really feel better if i knew what was going on!
i also have this problem and have wondered why. any suggestions from anyone? is it normal that some women just have more fat on the outside. i'm an average-size 21-year-old, with a very toned bottom half, except for this area.
I also have that look to my vagina. It is just fat and it is normal if you are overweight or used to be overweight. Some slender women also just naturally deposit more fat there than other places on their bodies, proportionately speaking. I did some research and found out that you can loose the fat in that area only by general weight loss or cosmetic liposuction. I personally like my extra cushioning there, and it is also a turn on for some guy. They just like that it feels so soft. The only problem I experience with my bump is the clothes issue. I always wear skirts just because it's hard to find pants that fit nicely in the crotch area. Okay, enough self-revelation for me today. I hope that helps you guys out.
YOU DON'T HAVE TO WORRY IT IS A NATURAL NORMAL THING AND ALL THIS DEPENDS ON THE TYPE OF BODY YOU ARE HAVING .... SOMETHING LIKE YOUR VAGINA IS TOO LARGE OR BIG COMES FROM UR TOMMY UPSIDE AT LEAST IF U COULD HAVE SOME EXERCISE EVERY WEEK IT WILL HELP OUT BUT I WANT TO SAY IT IS A NATURAL NORMAL THINGS MOST GUYS JUST LIKE IT LIKE THAT SOME LIKE TO BE PLAYING WITH IT WITH THEIR HANDS AND IT IS GREAT ON THERE AND IT MAKES YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE IN YOU AS WELL.. YOU JUST LET HIM KNOW HOW IT IS AT THE FIRST BEGGING THAT ALL BEFORE U GET INTO SERIOUS WITH HIM ON ANYTHING
GOOD LUCK
GOOD LUCK
Im the same! but im 16, i feel like it will put guys off :( annd im slim, havent ever been overweight && i doo exercise every night, anddd another 2 sports.
im the same way
im 13
im avrige and never really been over wheat my life and i was looking at some old pixs and it has been like this scence i was around 9!
iv been thinking about having sex with my boyfriend but in sceared hell see that and wont like it :/
im 13
im avrige and never really been over wheat my life and i was looking at some old pixs and it has been like this scence i was around 9!
iv been thinking about having sex with my boyfriend but in sceared hell see that and wont like it :/
im 17 & have the same problem. it really gets me down to the point that i cry on a regular basis. when it comes to relationships, i make sure its not a sexual one because im so self-concious about it. i want to tell someone close, like my mum. but even still im too ashamed to tell her. i just wish i was normal :| some people might think im acting pathetic, but unless you know what its like.. then you cant really judge or assume how i am or anyone else who has this same problem is feeling. well i know i never helped you but its good sometimes just to let people know that theyre not on their own.
Im 17 and i have noticed that my vagina, i have had a boyfriend for 8 months now and he says he likes it, i always ask him if it slaggy because it looks like i have had 5 children or something. i used to hard being completely naked with him and most the time i try and hide it, us girls are juts going to have to live with it, im have seen alot worst and atleast are middle bit isnt hanging out!! it okay girls, i mean its not the end of the world, we most learn to love it! :-P
I'm 16 with the same issue. I'd never noticed it before until a friend pointed it out as a joke assuming I have a big bush. And ever since I've been obsessed with hiding it. Don't feel like you are alone at all, there are plenty of us going through the same hardships.
Girls,
YOU ARE NORMAL!!! we are all built differently, and no matter what, there is a guy that will Love us the way we look. I'm also built like you other girls, I have fat above my vulva, I'm fleshier down below, always have been, and I do blame it on me being over weight, but I have a man that loves me for who I am. my Boyfriend has never said a word, he likes me the way I am. I have other isses with my body that is not even close to this, I have never even concidered my "fleshier vulva" to be an issue until I read this post. Girls, please don't get worked up about such a thing, you are all normal, and beautiful no matter what you look like.
-Canadian Girl
YOU ARE NORMAL!!! we are all built differently, and no matter what, there is a guy that will Love us the way we look. I'm also built like you other girls, I have fat above my vulva, I'm fleshier down below, always have been, and I do blame it on me being over weight, but I have a man that loves me for who I am. my Boyfriend has never said a word, he likes me the way I am. I have other isses with my body that is not even close to this, I have never even concidered my "fleshier vulva" to be an issue until I read this post. Girls, please don't get worked up about such a thing, you are all normal, and beautiful no matter what you look like.
-Canadian Girl
I can't believe I actually found out that I'm not alone in this. I can't say how much this effects me. I can never relax and really enjoy my sex life because I'm so anxious about it. I've never brought it up to anybody I've been with because I'm so embarressed I just hope they don't say anything because I won't know what to say. I'm not a twig, I'm just a normal sized woman with curves but all I see is unattractive fat. I've never had a guy mention it so I don't know what they think, it is actually no big deal? Or is it repulsive enough they'll not say anything out rrespect for your feelings? I just wish I could get rid of it so I wouldn't have to stop the sexual activies I want, but am too embarressed to let happen. No matter how pretty I can be, when it comes down to it, it just feels like faulse advertising.
Just wear a body shaping thing. I have this problem too and I'm not fat. I just have a fat vag. Which I was self conscious about until I found out a lot of guys love it. Quoting my fiance... "More meat to eat."
Well good to know it's more common than first thought. I'm glad to hear most women are comfortable with it. I am to a point, but in all honesty, I think I'm going to just splurge for lipo. Maybe guys aren't as turned off by it as I once thought, but for me, it's a constant insecurity, and it drives me nuts that I can never feel comfortable wearing cute tight fitted clothes, or a bikini. I know maybe that sounds harsh, but I just hate it. I'm not suggesting anyone do what I plan on doing. And I'm not posting this to make anyone feel more self concious or have more trouble embracing your body. I simply just don't want this for life. I'd much rather feel confident and secure. I honestly can relate with every nerve racking feeling most girls posting have felt. It sucks. And to be honest, screw that, I don't want to deal with it. I have enough other things to bug me in life. Hope all of you girls find a way to cope. It's an easy thing to be upset over. And spiteful over, too. Good luck to all of you.
I am 19 years old and I also have this problem. I am an average weight but I seem to have a fat vag lol. I always thought this was normal until a few friends pointed out in my tight jogging shorts that I have a "bumpy vagina" And you know what I said? "Isn't it supposed to be like that? who wants a flat vag?" ha well I guess it's true that most women have flat vaginas but whatever I havn't had any guys say anything about it so obvioulsy they don't mind so neither should I.
i'm a guy and i will honestly say i love a chubby vagina. they are so soft, and you like it rough and hard, the extra cushioning allows a guy to be as rough and hard as you want him to be without making his pubic bone (or yours) sore.
girls, you should be proud of your chubby pussies... and don't be afraid to show a little camel toe. it's sexy, not ugly like your silly magazines might tell you.
girls, you should be proud of your chubby pussies... and don't be afraid to show a little camel toe. it's sexy, not ugly like your silly magazines might tell you.