I have this problem also. I'm 15. Its not that I'm worrying about what guys will think if I have sex because I'm not ready for that yet. It just makes me so uncomfortable. I feel like I can't wear anything without it looking like I have a f*****g penis
I'm not saying this to get anyone sad but not all guys like this. I get stared at school all the time by all of my classmates and its so annoying and embarrassing. It looks like I have a penis. I just want it to go away so I can feel more comfortable. Its so hard to find clothes that make it less noticeable. I probably have at least one breakdown about it per day.
girl it's not fat.. you will never lose that bump. I have one and if i push on it there is bone right underneath a small layer of tissue, it means your pelvis is tilted forward not back so the bone protrudes out farther its not a bad thing, you will probably be able to give birth easier bc your pelvis is wider and tilted forward more. try wearing a bigger shirt for volleyball so its a little lower and might cover a little bit of the puff.
Same problem. I'm 17 and it really sucks because my friends find us as a joke. And I can't say I get offended by it because when I try they say I'm overreacting but they just don't understand how much it sucks. I lay on my back and put my legs straight and its this huge obvious bump, aren't vaginas suppose to be flat it's so annoying. And it's so hard to wear pants because the zipper area curves out a little more and the material around the crotch gets looser and eventually makes it look like a camel toe even tho its just the material being a little too loose. My excitement when I find a new pair of pants that is tight around that area and flattens it out is unexplainable, but then they mold to fit my body after a few wears and it's back to the same routine. It's so embarrassing ): I want lipo as soon as possible I've seen it on TV and I just want this gone ...
Wear a girdle, the tan kind they sell at walmart they have just the undies or ones that go from your thighs to under your bra that will smooth your tummy and the lower region. They are stretchy spandex and work great under dresses and clothes
OMG i have this too. It actually annoys me so much, i see pictures of other girls and they have no fat there and i want mine to look like that! I hate it ): I guess its normal, i thought i was the only one haha.
I'm 18 and have gained more fat there through out the years and when I was smaller (I've never been small I will never be below size nine cuz I'm graciously blessed with wide ass hips but when I was a size nine) I didn't have so much "cushin" there and sex did hurt and I didn't have it awhile after that. Well the more I developed I noticed I was getting a camel toe and more fat. Well sex with my boyfriend got easier and more fun. He could be rough and it wouldn't hurt. He became more aroussed playing with my mound. We talked about this recently, and he said baby please don't feel insecure about this. It's f*****g sexy as hell! I don't want to feel bone when I'm turned on that's a turn off. So ladies I say we have been blessed with something most girls don't have. Yes we don't want camel toes but it comes with the territory. We just learn how to dress to accompany this issue. We might not be able to wear the same fashion as other girls but at least when it comes to sex we are enjoying it!!
Oh my god! i have the worst! I am 15 and kinda big but not huge, and my vag is really...puffy %-) Im really nervous about having to do things with guys. I havent done anything yet and I'm really worried once he sees it he will say something or stop whatever we are doing coz its gross! What can I do? Will generally losing weight really get rid of it? Should I say anything to the guy before hand? %-) :'(
You really sshoulnt even be thinking about sex ay 13. I'm just saying. What if you get pregnant. You might be 14 when you have a baby. Thats crazy. Think about it.
I have the same problem. I'm 15 years old and I was over weight growing up but I lost most of the weight but my weight from there won't go away. I usually end up crying to my mom cause I still can't wear the cloths I want even thought I lost all my weight in my other places. My bf doesn't mind it but ik its there and I think its discusting. If I could lose it is be so much happier with myself. No one on my family has or had this problem.
You're 13!!! Don't think about sex right now, you're just too young
Im 14 your not the only one i have the same problem i hate my vagina it literally looks like i have a penis down there its horrible and disgusting! It makes me look like i have a huge camel toe when im wearing jeans so i have to be constantly pulling my shirt down or wear a long one so you cant see it. I've always been very paranoid about it and it sucks!
Honey, you're only 13. Wait till you're older and married to have sex.
I too have fat below my stomach area right above my pubic area
Hey I had the surgery and for the most part it went down but it is still there. You will probably have good days where you don't think it is noticeable and bad days where it is all you can see. I had the surgery 3 months ago and it came out to a total of about $4,000. You have to wear a compression garment for 24/7 for 3 weeks and then 12 hours a day for another 3 weeks. The swelling does not go all the way down for 6 months and you start to see results in the second month. The scars are minimal.