I used to have a pudgy vagina until I got pregnant...and truthfully...I want it back, it makes having sex so much less painful...for both partners. For all you girls saying you can't show it off to your guys, be confident in knowing you CAN perform for him in the first place...I can only have sex twice a week now because it hurts to have more than that... And believe me...most guys go nuts for a fat vagina anyways.
i am 15 years out and i have a fat vagina, it comes to a point where i cannot where leggings because it is so noticeable, i play sports and i need to wear tight lycra shorts all the time and it is so embarrasing ive even heard my team mates talk about it, i am tall and slim, never been overweight either.. is there anyway i can get rid of it or make it less noticeable? it's knocked my confidence amd self asteem alot! :/
OMG!! This one time I was in the girls change room and my friend asked me if i was on my period, cause she thought i was wearing a thick pad...
I'm 13 and i've got a fat vag. A guy in my class asked me if I had a boner. It's makes me want to rip the frickin thing off. :( I feel like a saddo sitting here all depressed. Even if it is more common than I thought with all the gals here it doesn't change the fact that it's not common at all. I hope this doesn't make others think the same way because it's very depressing but seriously. It's not like all these people are in the same place together. I'm the only person like this that I have met. I can talk to my mum about anything and she said it's normal. But f**k it. I'm all about what I think of myself. And if I don't think I look ok then I think no one does. I look at it when ever I'm in my underwear and it looks like a frickin penis. Haven't 6 year olds had plastic surgery for sticky out ears and sh*t so why can't a 13 year old get liposuction for her insecurity?
im 18, and iv recently been knocked back from a modeling job due to my vagina being too "large" its never botherd me before, iv always been proud of the skin im in, but after loosing a job because off it my vagina has made me feell really paranoid! and failing to model swimwear its now made me self concious about wearing a bikini on holiday. is there any surgery you can get? exercise doesnt do the trick.. and for all youu lads saying you like fat fannys, id prefer to have a small one because its costing my life!!
If you're planning on being a model you need to get used to being turned down for jobs because of the way you look. It's not because there is anything wrong with you. They are looking for a specific body shape or look and apparently you are not exactly what they are looking for.
Don't take it personal, I'm sure you will fit other modeling jobs. It's not because you are not perfect.
If I am looking for a car and I want a red one, I'm not even going to look at the blue one. That doesn't mean it's not as good as the red one, it just means it's not what I'm looking for.
I hope you can understand what I mean.
Don't take it personal, I'm sure you will fit other modeling jobs. It's not because you are not perfect.
If I am looking for a car and I want a red one, I'm not even going to look at the blue one. That doesn't mean it's not as good as the red one, it just means it's not what I'm looking for.
I hope you can understand what I mean.
Okay, I'm 30 years old and I've had this situation for as long as I can remember. I never really thought anything was "wrong" with me, and none of the men I've slept with have ever been turned off by it. Please stop obsessing over the negative, and think of the positive. It's there to protect your pelvic bone (and protects your partners as well), so you two can be as rough and wild as you want! The problem is not between your thighs, it's between your ears. Stop letting other people dictate what is sexy. If you feel sexy, then you ARE sexy! Good luck!
To the girls/ women that are obsessing about their large vulva/ vaginal area/ lips- Please don't- guys just love this part of your body. Is this what the media has reduced us to? Really??? 99% of guys will never say any thing bad about it. If you happen to have one of the 1% that says something insensitive- dump him. You're better than that...Trust me the guys are too worried about the size of their penises...lol. If you're going to bed with a guy and pull off your panties for him to see and put his hand down there and ask him "You like?" He's going to say "God, Yes!!!"
Well girls im 16 i have the same problem i have had sex before the guys thinks its sexy but i think you sould love ur self the way are but if you cant do that do tht then ur just going to have to get us to it .
i have the same problem, when i wear tight clothes for example like a tight dress or skirt it looks as if i have balls, its is very obvious. its like my whole bodies flat and then there's this bump... its really ugly, and i hate it :( i wish there was something i could do that wouldn't hurt..
I dont know if i have this problem? but on my front side- it's like a bump, like it looks puffy, but it's not and i doesnt look normal to me. I haven't stated my period yet or anything so i dont know what's going on.
A fat vagina is a sexy vagina. You may feel awkward to wear a shorts, but damn .
Honey, I'm sure your beautiful how you are but really think through the sex thing because your only 13 and you will never get your 1st time back. Not to mention all the risks, pregnancy, STD's, AIDS. And emotionally its a huge step as well. 13 is pretty young and I don't want you to regret your decision or get hurt. Not to mention what having sex so young will do for your reputation. Please think it through, if he really cares for you he will wait. If he won't, he's not worth it. Good luck!
After reading everyone's comments and replies ive got to say I never knew so many people felt the way I do too. I'm 17, I'm very tiny, and I've always had this problem since I could remember. I noticed it as soon as I was dancing at a young age, and my parts stuck out more than anyone else. Ever since then I'd be really upset about my body. As someone previously commented, I'd cry often and still do. Hell, I'm crying now reading the replies left before mine :P I guess we're really not alone, I feel a lot better thank you everyone!
I gotta say, I am surprised at all the responses I've read from women and girls that have the same issue, that I thought I was alone in. I am 26 and I have been bothered by this since I was in middle school. I remember asking my gyno why my pelvic area stuck out so much, especially when laying down...you could see it stick out like a hill. And she always told me, it's because you're so skinny. And I remember thinking to myself, "there's models more skinny than me and they don't look like this." So after having my 2 kids and gaining a bit more weight, I thought maybe she'd be right....WRONG! Seems to only have gotten worse. I don't really consider it a camel toe, it's just fat...like I should have been born with a penis. Just this huge bulge and even the bone seems to stick out more and it's covered with a mountain of skin and fat. I hate it, still to this day. I've never had any complaints from partners, just me. The worst part is bathing suits and that's what spurred this search tonight. I am so self conscious about it more now, and I have no clue what else to do. I don't want it to cause people to have that negative attention towards me or think guys are looking at it. It's just really something we can't do much about...just glad to know it's not just me anymore.