Female Masturbation; Can you lose your virginity?

HEY! did you know thhat masturbation is sin? because you want your body to control you and the temple of God is your body. Hope you can read this and stop doing masturbation. because you are ust being controlled by your sexual desire and you are having sex with urself and thats bad.

 

Anything done against the ways as prescibed by the nature are harmful in onw or the other. So, avoid and wait until you are grown enough and able to find a life parter to enjoy the life full swing. Love You!!! 

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um im 14 i tried masturbating (the one where you put you fingers in)

i did it with my thumb becuz i wanted to try my two fingers but it bled so i used my thumb.

it didnt felt good ;u; why? and it felt dry and like it was on fire ;; and at the end my vagina felt numb, i'm kinda scared 

 

(sorry for my bad english ><)

How long do you usually masturbate??? 10mins or less?

erm.... this is just my own opinion and I think you should seek other opinions first.

Now... virginity to be is STRICTLY ... A STATE OF BEING.... as long as a gal OR guy has never ever had sexual intercourse with another person, the person in question is a virgin.

In some cultures, a gal is a virgin only if her hymen is intact. When I say some cultures, I mean some cultures with very medieval or traditional views... the proof is usually when there is virginal bleeding when the penis penetrates the vagina and breaks the hymen...

However the hymen can be broken in other ways, medical examination, disease, horseriding or very vigourous types of exercise... but I won't bother with hymens and tests of virginity cos nowadays plastic surgeons can reconstruct a broken hymen.. it is actually a common surgery in places with communities who are particular about the whole intact hymen thing.

Personally I don't think its wrong to masturbate.. I mean better masturbation rather than sex with someone when you are too young OR not ready... I don't think its right either to deny the feelings you get from your own body.... you are human... you have hormones, so deal with it... masturbation is not wrong or "dirty".. it is pretty normal. and when you are in your teens, believe me, your hormones will be running like crazy and you'll be thinking about guys and sex just about all the time...so I see masturbation as a way out without having to go into actual sex with a partner.No I don't think you'll stop  being a virgin if you masturbate... it is a state of being and you only lose it the first time you have sexual intercourse with another person.

If you don't feel good when you masturbate, then don't do it. You will feel sore.. at times, when masturbating when you are not sufficiently aroused. THat means, there is no lubrication down there...  or its dry as a bone...  When you are aroused, you will start feeling wet down there.. and that's normal.. the wetness helps sexual intercourse ( when you actually have it)..and the wetness also helps if you like sticking your fingers in... but personally ... most of the feeling is found near the outside of the vagina where the nerves are found in greatest number... so sticking fingers in is not really necessary... Im not kidding... you can get a pretty good feeling by just stimulating the outside area.

Feel free to disagree.. I'm just saying what I know...

Hey! I am thirteen as well, and have been wondering he sane thing. I put the finger in at eleven, because i honestly didnt know what it was! And it hurt, but i did it anyway. And i broke my hymen that way. I didnt actually start to masterbate until this year and it's great, but i also felt really bad, like i should be waiting for marriage etc.. Well the truth is, if it's okay for guys to masturbate, then why isn't it for us girls? So i do somtimes and you dont lose you virginity unil genital to gential sex. So explore and learn to better understad yourself!

I'm 20 and I've been masturbating for a while anybody got any tips lately its been really......... BLAH!!

You can't lose your virginity until a peanus penetrates the vagina

Correct, but it's "penis".

mine too bled when i done masturbation. I am feeling so bad by thinking about whether i lost my virginity?? does it second time bled when in contact with my partner for the first time??

Hey i have been masterbaiting for a while now but just by rubbing myself and i recently slipped my fingers in and im kinda scared about breaking my hymen by sticking my fingers too far. Any advice?

Make sure you're wet enough when you do it, and stop if it starts to hurt.

Once your hymen is ruptured because of masturbation, is there a chance your hymen would cure itself and seam itself back? Help.. :(

That's the fun of masturbating you can do it as much as you want. Also you can only loose you virginity if you have sex with another guy.