Hey all. My girlfriend and I have been fooling around for about 3 months now and we are both our firsts. we have seem to reach sort of a problem. I am able to stimulate her and make her orgasm by the clitoris. However, moving onto vaginal stimulation to obtain a vaginal orgasm is where we have ran into som problems. She seems to be having some sort of pain/discomfort since i started achieve this vaginal orgasm. Am i going to far or is it just take awhile for her to get use to? We are kind of scared because if we move on to intercourse, a larger penis (larger than using 1 or 2 fingers) will most likely hurt even more.. correct? what are your thoughts?
there are multiple medical conditions that can cause a woman to be in pain during/after orgasm. The vagina is much longer than fingers, so you are not going to far in. The size of the object penetrating most likely does not matter, as any vaginal stimulation would cause pain. she should see her doctor to find the cause. most of the time it is treatable.
To Ecodun,
i would love to hear how it has been since, as we are also experiencing the same. Thanks.
i would love to hear how it has been since, as we are also experiencing the same. Thanks.