Hello women of all ages. I am a 22 year old m. I am in Iraq under a deployment. I am just going to ask one question here about fore play. I have gone down on my fiance and I just cant get her to come. Now I dont know if she is nervous or if I am doing something wrong. But she says I do a great job and am down there for like hours at a time. But still nothing. Thanks for your time.
Well I think the most important thing to remember here is that you don't always have to make someone come to be a good lover or even a great one--it's about the journey, not the destination. She is probably either very difficult to get off or anxious, and either way, what's it matter? You're doing a good job regardless, right? What do you think?
Right, I know what you mean. And I mean its not always my thing to make her come. Its just like nice for a guy to do something like that to a women, cause I know men that are like all about themselves and dont give any attention to what is needed. Me on the other hand I love to pleasure my women. It makes her feel good in return makes me feel unbelievable. Thanks.
Well I understand that for sure, but remember that sex is not the same for women. For men, the most incredible part of sex that we have is the orgasm, but that's not always true for women. In fact, they can feel awesome without any orgasm, I'm told much better than anything we'd ever experience. So while you are a very VERY good fiance, you don't need to worry about your manly duties. It sounds like your interest is a lot. Just believe her when she says she's happy, and ask her to tell you if she's ever unsatisfied. :-)
I'll comment, From a Womans Side of view!
I personally have a hard time climaxing/orgasming, no matter what happens, but the actual act is amazing to me, I personally don't need to orgasm to feel satisfied. Just being with my BF, is more than enough, and the fact we love each other...thats important to me. He has asked me before if there is anything wrong, as to why I can't orgasm, but I just have to tell him, its the way I'm made. and he is doing everything fine. When a girl says she is happy, she normally is....atleast I can say I am. If I have a build up of sexual tension I need to get rid of, I will masterbate, or masterbate with him at my side, watching...or helping, and it works, soon you will learn, exactly what turns her on, and makes her orgasm, but don't stress out about it. I Love it, me and my BF have sex as often as we can, and although I haven't orgasmed very much from him doing the work completely, its not that he is bad at it, or not sure what to do, its just the fact I'm different than some girls, and need certain things touched in certain ways to work. Soon he will know the more we practice, but practicing isn't a bad thing!!! Especially since it comes to sex.
-Canadian Girl
I personally have a hard time climaxing/orgasming, no matter what happens, but the actual act is amazing to me, I personally don't need to orgasm to feel satisfied. Just being with my BF, is more than enough, and the fact we love each other...thats important to me. He has asked me before if there is anything wrong, as to why I can't orgasm, but I just have to tell him, its the way I'm made. and he is doing everything fine. When a girl says she is happy, she normally is....atleast I can say I am. If I have a build up of sexual tension I need to get rid of, I will masterbate, or masterbate with him at my side, watching...or helping, and it works, soon you will learn, exactly what turns her on, and makes her orgasm, but don't stress out about it. I Love it, me and my BF have sex as often as we can, and although I haven't orgasmed very much from him doing the work completely, its not that he is bad at it, or not sure what to do, its just the fact I'm different than some girls, and need certain things touched in certain ways to work. Soon he will know the more we practice, but practicing isn't a bad thing!!! Especially since it comes to sex.
-Canadian Girl
Why do women pay for sex even when she is satisfied by her partner?