i am uncircumcised, and not very comfortable with pulling my foreskin back and forth. however i try to do it once a day in the shower.
whenever i have sex with a condom, i dont pull back my foreskin, i just wear ithe condom normally on top of the foreskin. however during sex the foreskin goes back on its own, and it really kills!
even worse is having sex without a condom, and when the foreskin goes back on its own, it really kills!!
im really worried and dont know what to do. as a result im scared to have sex cos i dont want to feel pain.
i was considering circumcision but it seems really hardcore. im 24yrs old.
please any helpful advice??
whenever i have sex with a condom, i dont pull back my foreskin, i just wear ithe condom normally on top of the foreskin. however during sex the foreskin goes back on its own, and it really kills!
even worse is having sex without a condom, and when the foreskin goes back on its own, it really kills!!
im really worried and dont know what to do. as a result im scared to have sex cos i dont want to feel pain.
i was considering circumcision but it seems really hardcore. im 24yrs old.
please any helpful advice??
I'm having the same problems during sex i find it is painfull and after my foreskin is cut and makes urinating painful, i'm going to have to see a doctor because i cant put up with it any more.
Joe
Joe
i'm confused, i' still a virgin, so when you have sex, is the foreskin behind the head at all times? also, when you put the condom on, do you pull the foreskin back over the head then put it on, or leave the foreskin over the head then put the condom on?
Go to a doctor and have them demonstrate the correct technique to putting on a condom. It just might be that your skin is getting pinched inside the condom causing you pain. If it causes you pain having condomless sex, then I would go talk to a doctor as that is probably not normal.
nah, it's normal. it's all over the forums. it hurt like hell for me at first, i had to dump tons of lube on it in the beginning. just use lube and stretch it when you can. if you can manage to get it all the way back when not erect, i suggest keeping it out all the time as a way of stretching it.
here's my story:
I'm uncircumcised. When I started having sex (at 16) I had never retracted my foreskin. I had to use lubricant so that the friction would not cause the foreskin to painfully retract from the friction. With regular sex, the foreskin slowly stretched until it was able to fully retract.
Years later, a bad attempt at a hand job fully retracted the foreskin, and then some, and my frenulum tore, not completely, but to the point where it was fleshy, turning later to scabbed-over. I avoided strain on it for a short time until it healed. After that, I seemed to become predisposed to ripping the skin in the same spot during sex. I finally got frustrated and when it happened the last time, I forcefully (and quite painfully, as the frenulum was torn at the time) forced the foreskin to fully retract and kept it that way for more than a week until it seemed completely healed. After doing that, the foreskin was looser (a good thing) and I have had no more problems with tearing.
On a side note: After about 3 days of constant sensation from the head of my penis against my shorts, I got completely used to it and stopped noticing whether my foreskin was retracted or not. I did have the annoyance that the foreskin would tend to roll back over the head. I figured out how to stop this: after cleaning it in the shower, with the foreskin fully retracted (and the penis semi-erect), apply oral lubricant (read: hock a loogey) on the head of the penis/underside of the foreskin. Then work the foreskin on an off a couple times so that the foreskin glides nicely and tucks behind the head (instead of rolling back over it). Then just rinse off the excess and viola: a imitation circumcised penis (with a redder head and a slight bulge of skin just behind the head). Although, I'm testing a theory that the excess skin will disappear if not used, it has already seemed to shorten somewhat when I fully extend the foreskin over the head. (This is after 2-3 months of keeping the foreskin back almost every day.)
You may ask why I kept doing it. 2 reasons: For one thing, from what I'm told, it smells/tastes better for oral sex. For another, after urination, the amount of urine that sticks to the penis is reduced, lessening the chance of a wet spot in underwear.
here's my story:
I'm uncircumcised. When I started having sex (at 16) I had never retracted my foreskin. I had to use lubricant so that the friction would not cause the foreskin to painfully retract from the friction. With regular sex, the foreskin slowly stretched until it was able to fully retract.
Years later, a bad attempt at a hand job fully retracted the foreskin, and then some, and my frenulum tore, not completely, but to the point where it was fleshy, turning later to scabbed-over. I avoided strain on it for a short time until it healed. After that, I seemed to become predisposed to ripping the skin in the same spot during sex. I finally got frustrated and when it happened the last time, I forcefully (and quite painfully, as the frenulum was torn at the time) forced the foreskin to fully retract and kept it that way for more than a week until it seemed completely healed. After doing that, the foreskin was looser (a good thing) and I have had no more problems with tearing.
On a side note: After about 3 days of constant sensation from the head of my penis against my shorts, I got completely used to it and stopped noticing whether my foreskin was retracted or not. I did have the annoyance that the foreskin would tend to roll back over the head. I figured out how to stop this: after cleaning it in the shower, with the foreskin fully retracted (and the penis semi-erect), apply oral lubricant (read: hock a loogey) on the head of the penis/underside of the foreskin. Then work the foreskin on an off a couple times so that the foreskin glides nicely and tucks behind the head (instead of rolling back over it). Then just rinse off the excess and viola: a imitation circumcised penis (with a redder head and a slight bulge of skin just behind the head). Although, I'm testing a theory that the excess skin will disappear if not used, it has already seemed to shorten somewhat when I fully extend the foreskin over the head. (This is after 2-3 months of keeping the foreskin back almost every day.)
You may ask why I kept doing it. 2 reasons: For one thing, from what I'm told, it smells/tastes better for oral sex. For another, after urination, the amount of urine that sticks to the penis is reduced, lessening the chance of a wet spot in underwear.
GET USED TO IT!!
The more you pull back your foreskin, the less painful the experience will be. You're only experiencing pain during sex because your penis is not used to stimulation without the foreskin. Practice and experiment, eventually it won't hurt anymore.
The more you pull back your foreskin, the less painful the experience will be. You're only experiencing pain during sex because your penis is not used to stimulation without the foreskin. Practice and experiment, eventually it won't hurt anymore.
My experience was very much the same as Rusul's, with some differences. Without boring details, let me just add that my older brother, cousin and I have been permanently retracted (auto-circumcised) for some years, ever since about puberty, and we wouldn't have it any other way. In fact, we will probably never need to be circumcised.
Later on, we have met other boys that admitted to doing the same thing. Many of us had been unwittingly fooling each other along with all the cirucmised boys in the lockerrooms, showers, swimming ponds and other places where guys shed their clothes. One boy had even fooled his doctor. In the beginning, some of us didn't even understand what circumcision was. All we knew was that our foreskins were trouble, we hated them, and we were determined to get rid of them.
Later on, we have met other boys that admitted to doing the same thing. Many of us had been unwittingly fooling each other along with all the cirucmised boys in the lockerrooms, showers, swimming ponds and other places where guys shed their clothes. One boy had even fooled his doctor. In the beginning, some of us didn't even understand what circumcision was. All we knew was that our foreskins were trouble, we hated them, and we were determined to get rid of them.
I have a question rather then a reply to this i while ago july of last year my gf (now ex) and i were having sex and everything was normal untill she gave me oral and a ha****b at first it was normal but then my penis startes to pour out blood it didnt hurt no did i even feel it happen i just say the blood i am not circumsized so when the forskin was pulled back it was fine but the blood came from behind the head of my penis what does this mean?
Please help me end my worrys
You tore your frenulum. Happens to a lot of us.
did u have sex any time recent?
i have read all the comments and have tried pulling it back once a day but when i do just at the bottom of the head it has a really dark purple ring and i was just wondering if that is normal please help me!!
IT IS NORMAL EVEN I HAVE THAT!!
my boyfriend and I had sex a few weeks ago, and he could not get his penis fully into me without a condom when erect because it hurt so much when he pulled back on his foreskin. it was unpleasurable for both me and him and its frankly annoying for him because he gets really embarassed! should i tell him to stretch the foreskin regularly to make sex feel better?
Wait what happens if u tear ur frenulum? Does it hurt? Does it bleed?
I guess that depends on the person. I tore mine several times and it bled just a little. It didn't really hurt unless I touched the open cut.