Hey im in a tight situation so ill give you guys all the details, Male, 14. I am between small and average height for my age, not bad looking, and Im also known as quite strong and muscly since ive done boxing for 6 years.Well here we go. Im in england you see, in my school at the start of the day we go to our tutor rooms for 20 minutes and chill then go to 6 different lessons each 50 minutes long with an hour lunch and 20 minute break timeThe girl I like ive known since Reception (age 5) all through primary school she was a very good friend. We are know in secondary school together, I didnt like her in primary but now I do, her personality looks everything. Well here is the awkward part. Im in her tutor, all of her classes and same with all of her friends which are close friends with me also. I talk to her every day she sort of relies of me for information lol I dont mind telling her stuff she is very chill and I trust her, she tells me stuff. I dont talk to her to much like sit with her at lunch and stuff but she always comes and sits/talks with me when she can. Im quite funny and I always make her laugh :) How can I ask her if she likes me also without it being awkward? If I ask her and she says yes, I will be extremely happy but We are both "popular" and news will spread, we will be tormented and shizz. But im more afraid of what comes instead of that. She will tell her friends and make it awkward for me. I love the friendship we have but I just think we should take it further
You just need to ask her there isn't another way to do it good luck
Thank you for the reply
Yes, I agree as well. Ask her , see what she says. But I'm 100% sure she has the same feelings for you.
You need to do this as soon as possible. In situations like these, it's better to regret something you did than something you did not. And about the "being awkward" because you are "popular". Don't be scared about it, yes people could talk about it for some time. But eventually , no one will care.
As for the "friendship", your friendship is gone. Deal with it, because it was gone the moment you started to have feeling for her. This is not a bad thing , no. The best relationships come out out of a friendship. You guys know each other better and it's more likely that your relationship will withstand anything. You said you can make her laugh, just remember the quote "If you can make a woman laugh, you can make her do anything".
Good luck and I'm sure this will turn out as you wish. BTW, keep us posted on how this went.